He call's other girls on his cellphone and stayed up until 5 am texting one girl. I think this is so wrong...I feel like wringing his neck because he says it is all innocent and that he is here with me. Right or Wrong?
2007-01-08 16:39:35 · 21 answers · asked by geewhizbaby2008 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl i would make him eat that cell phone...You need to put your foot down, this makes you feel uncomfortable and he is disrespecting you...What would he do if you were talking to guys all hours of the night and texting them????
2007-01-08 16:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my husband and I are married and neither one of us does such a thing. I have male friends that i talk to but not for hours. He's there with you but you don't know what he's doing when he's not with you. I mean if he does that when you're around I wonder what he does when you're not around. I mean how would he like it if you did the same thing. Maybe you should give it a try and if he says anything just tell him "it is all innocent". You need to talk to him and let him know it bothers you. I definitely wouldnt let my husband do such a thing. There are limits for everything and i think he's crossing the limits.
2007-01-09 01:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by LD82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions are completely wrong... but instead of getting worked up, you should concentrate on making it impossible for him to concentrate on any other girl but you...
start texing his phone, too with random sexy/loving/funny things... it'll either use up his texts (assuming he doesn't have unlimited) and it will get expensive for him to talk to other people...
invest in some serious sleepware that the both of you will love...
plan more activities for the two of you...
either way wringing his neck won't solve anything.
if it were me, I'd of already broken that phone into bits if mine stayed up until 5am talking to ANYONE!! lol
screw that, he's dead wrong, but you've got to be better than the girls he's in contact with - keep that in mind.
2007-01-09 00:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by TVSPBT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's not really "with" you when he's glued to his phone texting another female, now is he? He's wrong but trying to justify it and make you think it's O.K. He will continue this behavior until you no longer accept it. You deserve better treatment and respect. Tell him to knock it off or get out. Alimony is much better than being made to feel like you're second best, or third best, or worse.
2007-01-09 00:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Harley 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Innocent means you can hang up. It means you do not feel compelled to sms until 5 in the morning. Inocent means it's either work related or the girl is his sister/ mother/ auntie. Anything else is NOT inocent.
2007-01-09 01:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put his phone in toilet and tell him your going to flush it. Just like he is doing to your relationship. I heard you can put cellphones in microwaves too. Good luck
2007-01-09 00:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by mysticstargoddess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start calling and texting other guys on your cell phone. See if it's alright by him.
2007-01-09 01:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are right and your husband is wrong.Why are you putting up with that?He is lying if he says its innocent,when you stay up to 5 in the morning ,it sounds pretty serious.
2007-01-09 00:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by slickcut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is so disrespecting you and i`m sure he`s cheating or about to cheat so you better put your foot down before it gets worse.Sorry
2007-01-09 01:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: divorce. Your husband is cheating on you. Yes, it's cheating, I don't care if he hasn't "hooked up" with these other women. I think you deserve better than this.
2007-01-09 00:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋