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All of my former girlfreinds have been angry at me at one time or another, because of some dream they have had. I never did , said , or felt anything like what they dreamed about, but still, i get in trouble for it!

2007-01-08 16:12:57 · 6 answers · asked by Big hands Big feet 7 in Social Science Psychology

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because for some reason they think it is a sign! lol..trust me on this..they may have been burned before and you just happen to travel into that equation while they sleep-or you two may have had a fight or something and they just have all kinds of scenarios running thru their subconcious..women are funny creature sometimes and you just have to kind of laugh it off-cause if you know you havent done anything-well they'll just have to get over it!!!!

2007-01-08 16:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I can't imagine being angry at someone else over my dreams, so I doubt they were truly mad at you over theirs. The dream probably touched on her insecurities. I promise that she wants to believe you when you say that you have never done, said or felt that way. She just needs to hear a little more affirmation that you would never, could never.

Try to act stunned at the very idea of what she dreamed, as if it is the most impossible, unthinkable thing in the world. Then, hug her and try to help her laugh about it. Especially key, if it was jealously about another girl, is to reassure her that she is 1,000 times smarter, 1,000,000 times prettier than the ex-girlfriend, best friend, or hot lunch lady that she dreamed about.

Oh, one more thing: as SOON as she feels a little better, let it go. It never happened. My stupid ex used to bring up my insecurities from time to time, and then I really was angry with him! No one wants to be reminded of what hurts.

2007-01-08 16:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by talkingofmichelangelo 1 · 1 0

There are people that feel that your dreams are your unconscious' way of "speaking out" (FREUD) For those people, the events that happen in your dreams are a sign of things that you are unconsciously thinking about. It is likely that these girls are fearing that the events in thier dreams wil really happen in real life and therefore after having the dream, and having it become a conscious thought rather than an unconscious one, they have an increase in anxiety. Thsi increase causes them to react towards you, even though you have done nothing. Keep in mind that a girl that engages in this cycle is most likely insecure about your relationship and maybe yo shoul drethink about whether you should be with her or not.

2007-01-08 16:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2016-11-27 21:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't get mad at my man for dreaming. You cannot control what you dream, as long as he does not act on them.

2007-01-08 16:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0 0

That is nonsense! If they are mad, I hope the dream was about some other man!!

2007-01-08 16:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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