what age is good for a female to get married? I'm 23, not married yet.?

Answer 1

I got married at 21, and that was too young. However, I don't regret it at all. I just think I should have been more mature before taking such a big step.

Answer 2

I feel that it is not the age that counts it is how mature you both are. I was married at 16 and people said it would not last 2 months well 30 years later they are eating what they said. But you have to realize that marriage is suppose to be forever and that is where most people have problems. You get so use to one another you take each other for granted and no longer appreciate what you have. You always have to make your marriage interesting by trying new things together, sharing things and do not forget about being able to communicate which is one of the most important things in the relationship besides being honest with each other. I say marriage is a 24 hour a day job, it never ends you both need to keep working on it together. That is why age does not matter it is how much interest you invest into one another that counts! The work that goes behind the marriage to make the marriage work. Just so you are both ready to settle down is what really counts since most men mature slower then women.

Answer 3

i think the perfect time for a female to get married is when she meets the guy who is perfect for her. that's different ages for everyone, because i think every woman needs to get herself figured out so she can give herself fully into the relationship. some 20 year old women are mature enough that they're already there, while some 30 year old women still have a ways to go. you may be 23 and feel ready, but the timing just isn't right. maybe you just need to have some more experiences until you're ready, and then it will just all happen naturally when it's supposed to. there shouldn't be any set age group where women get married in, but this society has put it in the mid 20's to early 30's. That's also the age where most people are ready though, but I think that it's something that shouldn't even be worried about. it's just a part of one long individual timeline that's your life, and it will happen at just the right point for both you and your future husband where ever he is.

Answer 4

The right age is when you meet the man you really want to spend the rest of your life with. This is difficult to do, although some people are lucky and find each other early on. I thought the "right age" was twenty five, so when I was twenty five I went out and found myself a nice looking guy who also wanted to get married. Thus I ended up in a dead end engagement for three and a half years with a very abusive person. Maybe I could have been meeting better guys when I was with him. In any case now I know life can be very full and rewarding without a man, and it's always much better without the wrong one! Then when the right guy does come along he will just be the icing on the cake.

Answer 5

There is no good or bad age. When you have accomplished all that you want (because marriage and children can keep this from happening), when you have the career you have always wanted, when you have some money set aside for a rainy day, when you find the right guy that respects you and loves you and treats you as an equal - then you ar ready to get married.

Answer 6

We got married at 22 and were still each others best friend and still happily married. Being married is the most difficult thing that two people will experience..you are taking two totally different backgrounds, households, drive in life, emotions...My husband and I learned to Live Life On Lives Terms and don't let our brain kill us off because the brain will fool you.. it will think up *hit all on it's on. Just be a good person.Some sayings I grew up with:Never cheat or make him worry while he's at work, but when he gets off work and doesn't put you first cry on His shoulder Only:) My Grandmother used to tell me that your honest not because someones watching you..it's because that's who you are. Find someone who has the same motives as you..if you like to go to school then pray for someone who likes to work and take care of you, but make sure you take care of him right back.

Answer 7

There is no truly "good" age to get married in my opinion. You are ready when you are ready. I waited until I was 30 before I settled down. I'm really thankful for that time on my own.

There is no specific age, just when you are ready. (Here's a hint, when you can not imagine your future without the man/woman in question - you probably are ready. He, on the other hand, might have differnt ideas. Stick to your heart.

Answer 8

There is no right age. There is only a legal age to get married. Getting married after the legal age is based on maturity, and the ability to find that special someone.

I was ready at 22, and was lucky enough to find him shortly after I realized I was ready for marriage.

Answer 9

30

Answer 10

1 1/2 to 2 years after meeting the right guy and he ask you.
That is a good time to marry.

23 to 30 is a good time.
Or later if your busy with other things in life and have not found the right guy yet.

Answer 11

I'm going to get married when I find the one I love and I don't care how old I am. I'm 22. I don't think there is a set age for marriage...its all about WHO you're marrying.