I am 20 yrs old with a 21 month old son. i remember bleeding a lil bit with him, but that was after my mucas plug fell out and the doc said everything was fine. im not sure if my mucas plug fell out with this pregnancy. i went and got checked at the hospital , i was there forever. and the docs kept saying they dont see blood yet every time i went to the washroom and wiped there was blood on the toilet paper. is this something to be concerned about? perhaps the sex if still a little too rough?
2007-01-08 16:04:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i immediatly went to the hospital with my fiancai. the doctors did an interal and all that fun stuff... i wasnt aware of still being able to have miscarriage's this late. i am due in about 7 weeks and the baby has a full heathly heartbeat and is still moving around...but i just dont see why the docs coodnt seeing any blood but i could
2007-01-08 16:22:16 · update #1
Bleeding during pregnancy is not normal. I am not saying that there is anything wrong, but you should call the doctor NOW. Count the baby's kicks and tell your doctor how many kicks you count in a minute. Always check with your doctor if there is any bleeding. I know if it's nothing it can seem silly, but if it's something, and you wait it could make things far worse.
I am glad you went to check! Don't worry if they couldn't see anything, at least you know the baby if OK!
2007-01-16 15:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll never change. I am sorry you are in this situation. Now you have to deal with him forever, in regards to the child you guys will have. Because you don't know what it's like to be a mother yet, you will get a HUGE wake up call... as well as he - how hard it is. If you expect him to do his "fair share" as a father... You need to know, not even the majority of MARRIED men in good relationships help out as much as they really should when it comes to a pregnant partner. Those nights that he says he may help out - sleep deprivation can really make people upset... Main thing I would be concerned with is this baby. You chose to keep this baby this far along on shaky grounds... You need to know that part of being a mother is something called "sacrifice" - From the day you hear those first little cries and see that soft small innocent face you need to know that it is NOT ABOUT YOU anymore... Forever... What makes you happy, what makes you feel good - forgot those things... You need to put this child first in your life. Think about what's best for him or her... If you really think it's important for the baby to have a father who is partying, drinking, getting high and thinking about cheating on his baby's momma - then so be it. Just remember, there is no one else in the world that is going to care about your child more than you - so step it up and be a good mother and do what's right. Either put the kid up for adoption OR figure out if this guy is going to step it up with you (and don't wait around forever, you should know if he is by the end of the first month) and if not, get your stuff together and call your family for support and be safe. You are going to need lots of help. I am 30 years old and married and I still struggle every day, it's hard to be a mother... let alone a single mother, let alone a single mother who thinks shes in a relationship with a good guy whose actually a jerk. Good luck girl. Hope it turns out ok for you and your baby.
2016-05-22 21:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started bleeding in my 8th month after doing a bit too much housecleaning. I went to the hospital and found that my placenta had torn which caused the bleeding. This can happen and the docters then tell you you must stay in bed throughout the rest of the pregnancy. To stay off your feet with feet up on pillows. It has happened to me twice now.
2007-01-16 15:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by blondelonghairlily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the doc said it looked fine, then it probably did. You are far enough along the baby could be born now with very little worry. I wouldn't be concerned unless you are bleeding so much you are soaking pads.
2007-01-16 06:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by been_there_done_that 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a reason that doctors call what they do "practice"...see your obgyn asap. they should know more about what is going on with you than a dr at the er.
ex: i knew for a fact that i was having a miscarriage a couple of years ago...dr at the er said that there was nothing wrong with me. i went to my obgyn the following morning, and they did an ultrasound...guess what? the embryo had already passed with the bleeding....
so please, take everyone's advice and get in asap. especially since this is your second baby.
gl, and i hope everything goes well :)
2007-01-08 16:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by mkshny_4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of 2, this sounds like what they call "bloody show", which is a sign that labor is near. If it persist, go back to the doctor, u know the tell-tell signs of labor.
2007-01-08 16:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by poohbie_red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are having sex while pregnant i think that might be the reason why this is happening to you other than that tell your doc. what you just posted on y! answers...sounds pretty serious to me...
2007-01-08 16:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by The Taste U can See 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be the sex, the cervix can be easily bruised during late pregnancy and cause bleeding.
2007-01-13 08:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by mery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Go to your doctor A.S.A.P. Could be nothing but don't chance it in this late stage of the game!
2007-01-08 16:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Bekinder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be safe i would go to the doctor. this might also be caused if you might be having sex. but to be on the safe side check with your doctor. and good luck
2007-01-15 00:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋