am i bi or bicurious?

Question

okay so im a little scared of the d**k it still makes me kinda sick!
there are alot of bi girls at my school and there are two that really stand out and im close friends with them but i feel alittle werid around them beacuse they like me and i kinda have feelings for them but im not completely sure, my first make out was a girl and i can see my self with a gurl other than a guy but there are very few girls i like only two have ever caught my eye im just a little wierded out by it tho cuz i want to kiss them but nothing moree and they are like l*z soo they want more am i simply bi curious or am i really bi ? or is it jsut a faze taht wiil pass in time?

Answer 1

you can be bi and not want to go all the way that is perfectly fine

dont do nothing you arent comfortable with

you can say your bicurious seeing how you arent sure

youll know in time if you really like girls just dont worry about the lableing

dont worry what other people do just do you some people are more comfortable with their sexuality then others

Answer 2

In youth bi is a natural part of sexual development you are curious about how other women do "things" it leads to a level of experimentation but it is up to you to decide your lifestyle - chicks/di..s or both. As a young woman you are not equipped to make that decision instantly. Take your time weigh your options and then make your choices. I have many bi friends that after 30+ years and it is their choice just as my "straight/gay" friends made there choices. Don't feel like you need to decide today you are still learning and when you have found the right teacher all will be revealed.

Answer 3

There's no way to know yet if it's a phase or not. I would suggest that you just slow it down a little. You don't sound comfortable with any of these feelings, or with what others are expecting of you. My best advice is to go with what makes you comfortable. Kiss who you're attracted to. If you go farther than that, let it be because you want to. Forget what others want from you, you need to be your priority. If you see someone you like, go after them, whether they're guy or girl. You don't have to have all the answers right now, but you can enjoy figuring them (and yourself) out. Good luck!

Answer 4

Sweetie... I was curious when i was a teenager as well.. I have even been with a few girls during my college years.. Eventually I grew out of it and knew for sure I love guys.. I think either way, you´re still young and your sexuality may still be developing.. You may found out later, that you like both guys and girls or guys only.. or girls only, maybe.. it´s an age thing, before all.. it will go away.. Don´t be ashamed of your feelings.. trying is a good thing.. being opened to new experiences.

Answer 5

A strict definition of a bisexual would be someone who has romantic and/or sexual relations with other people of more than one sex (though not necessarily at the same time). However, since not everyone has necessarily had the opportunity to act on their sexual/romantic attractions, some people prefer a looser definition; for instance, that a bisexual is a person who - in their own estimation - feels potentially able to have such attraction. This could be anyone who has erotic, affectionate, or romantic feelings for, fantasies of, and/or experiences with both men and women. A bisexual may be more attracted to one sex than the other, attracted equally to both, or find people's sex unimportant. The strength of their attractions to men and women may vary over time. I'm bisexual and you sound "bi" to me more than just curious which is fine. I don't believe in that faze stuff. Either you're attracted to both sexes or not. No in betweens.

Answer 6

Everyone can get curios and i think that's what you are if you are scared of being with a guy most girls are at some stage in there lives it just means ge patient and concentrate on just being friends with everyone you don't need to think about that now , by the time you grow up a bit more there wont even be a question mark

Answer 7

It's okay, you will figure it out sooner or later.
But i would say you are probably, bi-curious
When i was younger i got pretty confused about it, I knew i liked guys but i was more comfortable with girls.
Women have beautiful bodies but i could never see myself in a relationship. After i was with my first serious boyfriend, I knew i was Just bi-curious...Which is pretty much when you like girls but love guys. heh
Good luck~
♥

Answer 8

Once upon a time i though the same thing about myself i believe it is bi curious and that it is a phase that will pass. maybe you should share your feeling with the 2 friends just to let them know.

Answer 9

awwe its okay
i am the same way
i just dont wanna come
out i think i am just bi curious ..
uhhh if you have already kissed a girl i
thinkt hat you are acually bi
but oevr the years you might get over it it
really depends if you want too live bi or not
its really up to you hunn
=]
good luckk

Answer 10

If you aren't for sure what you are, than you probably are bicurious. Take your time and figure out what you want. You don't have to fit into a category, just be yourself. I like girls sexually, but not emotionally. I don't have a name for what I am, but I am just me. I will figure it all out on my own time. Goodluck!