I've been through a lot of conflicts and misunderstanding lately. However, I tend to enjoy this time of alienation from others. When I am pissed off or accused of something, I enjoy it. I know this is weird but is something wrong with me? Should I do something to change it? I just don't understand. Help me please.
2007-01-08 15:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by lwsn87 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds like you are not enjoying the conflict but rather the time youhave with yourself. It is very possible that you are using the conflict as a way to be by yourself without having to tell others that you want that time. It can sometimes be hard to turn down offers from friends and family to do social activies and this could be your way to get out of those things. It is very common for people to start conflict with others in order to avoid other underlying issues.
2007-01-08 16:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are not getting enough attention in your life, doing what you are doing to bring the kind of attention you may not have really wanted. You do not really want to be looked upon as a bully or trouble maker but that is the direction you are headed. You should change it before you get way out of control. You did not state your age so I think it maybe a part of growing up. Ask yourself this: Do I want to be treated as I am treating people?
2007-01-09 00:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you enjoying being alone or enjoying being accused of something?
When you've pissed someone off do you think that they are brooding about you? Maybe you're wanting people to notice you but you are not comfortable being around those people.
2007-01-09 00:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's weird at all. I wish more people would be ok with their own company when they're down. The drama can get so old! Stay the way you are and when you're pissed, know at least you're not spreading negativity!
2007-01-09 00:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have what is called stimulous hunger. Hunger that can only be reduced by stimulation. This is enjoyable. Try reading some of Eric Berne's "Games People Play" and learn where this may coordinate with your reality.
2007-01-09 00:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to be by yourself to get in touch with yourself. Most people run away from their feelings and emotion. Maybe you like to be face to face with them. Have you ever tried chanting the Maha Mantra. (the great mantra for deliverance from suffering and illusion) go to krishnaculture. for details read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada- has the cure for all situations in life.
2007-01-09 00:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋