I really need opinions, ok. My step-mom cheated on my dad for about a month and then he found out on sept. 11. there wedding anniversary is january 11th. every year since 2002 they have gone to vegas for conventions & wut not.
i while ago she sent a text message that said: "do u ever put your wedding ring on just to see what it looks like?" just a lil add in, anyways she has a bf rite now and my dad has a gf... she is telling her bf strait out that she and my dad r goin to vegas now my 2 questions:
1. does my dad wear his wedding ring, leave it home or take it with him?
2. wut does my dad tell his gf?
2007-01-08 15:49:58 · 12 answers · asked by bsumptin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm confused...they are married and they have other people that they call boyfriend and girlfriend?
If that's the case, it really doesn't matter if your dad wears his ring or not...the ring and the marriage mean nothing anyway.
2007-01-08 15:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are they going to Vegas together? Is it work related or personal?
I would say he should be honest with his girlfriend as it'll only cause trouble later down the track. Sugar coat it if need be but still be honest. What does your dad want from the trip? Is he looking for a hot steamy love affair with her for the weekend? Or is he looking to rekindle something long term if possible? If he wants an affair only he should wear the ring. Might turn her on for short term if that's all she's after. But it he wants something more long term he should probably not wear it. The absence of it might make her remember what she did to him. Maybe take it with him so they can talk about weather or not it's a good idea to put it back on. If she thinks he should try wearing it again she can maybe put it on for him.
Tricky situation and a bit dangerous really if he's truly into his new gf. I wish you all the best of luck and I hope he isn't setting himself up for the chance of another broken heart.
2007-01-08 16:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Venessa M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all does you dad know hes going to Vegas? and if hes not married to her i sure would not wear the ring. id leave it at home. but if it was my bf and he said he was going to Vegas with his ex wife well needless to say he would come back to me cuz id booted him out. and your dad should not lie to his gf because that's causing distrust in their relationship and if it was to continue trust issue is not going to help their relationship. the key is they are divorced so they should not be going together at all UNLESS your moms bf goes and your dads gf goes. and they go as 2 different couples and your mom and dad doesn't stay in same room. that's the best i can tell you i hope this helped sorry . i would KILL my hubby if he thought he was going on a trip with an ex. then again maybe they are thinking of getting remarried in Vegas or maybe that's what your mom wants to try to do. i would tell them both to be totally honest all the way around. and again maybe they all 4 can go as couples and just have a good time,
2007-01-08 16:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see how these questions are any of your business.
If you had asked, "How do I cope with all the drama in my life?" or "How should I best express my disappointment to my father and step-mom over their break up?" Then I think I would have more constructive advice.
At this point, and the questions you are asking it is truly NONE of your concern what your father says to his GF or if he takes his ring or not. It truly is none of your business.
2007-01-08 16:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to leave the ring at home, so that you can pawn it, get some money have a little party while their away and enjoy yourself for awhile. (offer to look after your stepmoms rings too)
lol
2007-01-08 16:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bev J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit your dad & step mom down & tell them you are tired of living in a screw up family & THEY NEED TO GROW UP
2007-01-08 16:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by LCee 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your parents need to share with their b/f and g/f that they have alot of unfinished Game Playing at home.
2007-01-08 16:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by miay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he should take his girlfriend, and leave the ring off, unless he wants her back
2007-01-08 15:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think about the fact that they could be swingers?
2007-01-08 16:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK ITS SOME THING U JUST HAVE TO ASK HIM. ITS THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT
2007-01-08 15:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by CANDY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋