when I attracted by a woman or a man i want to get physical with her / him but as a life partner I always want a female person.......am I GAY or BISEXUAL or MENTALY DISTURBED...........should I get married with a woman ???
2007-01-08 15:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you're straight with some gay tendencies. Attraction isn't just physical, it's also about emotional attachment. If you can feel emotionally attached to a woman as a lover but not to a man, then you aren't really gay. However if this is true, you shouldn't consider marriage until you're quite sure that you're ready to be faithful to one person. I hope this helps.
2007-01-08 16:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question. I am 43 and was in your position when I was in my late teens and early 20's.
I ended up falling in love with a woman and getting married. We had kids and 15 years together. We grew apart like many people do and got divorced a few years ago. She knew I was bi from day one so we are able to continue to be great friends.
I identify more as gay now than I did then and date mostly men.
I am always honest to whoever I date and I was faithful to my wife.
You can fall in love with the person and not the gender but because of your attraction to both sexes you may have a difficult time wondering if the grass is greener on the other side when in a relationship.
Keep it honest and you will have few regrets in life. Lie and cheat and you and your partner(s) will be miserable.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-08 16:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by chuck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're bisexual. All 'bisexual' means is that you have a physical attraction to both sexes; it means nothing about who you have an emotional connection with. Many bisexuals, indeed, have an emotional and physical attraction to one sex, and solely a physical attraction to the other (although many have both with each). There are lots of bisexual men who like men physically, but like women physically and emotionally. Nothing wrong with wanting a woman as a life partner.
So, you're bisexual.
Should you get married with a woman? That's not for me to say. Do what feels right to you.
2007-01-08 16:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound bi but if you marry you must be with just her so if you see a nice male you cant go there. Fact is marriage should be thought about long and hard because it's not something that should be thrown away because you see someone better.
If is a male or a female you want try to think before you act. It takes years to get over some things
2007-01-08 16:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry anyone until you are sure.
I believe you are bisexual. I am the same way... I love both genders, but I prefer my long-term partners to be of the opposite gender, usually.
Don't worry about it! Just enjoy it and eventually you'll know what you are most comfortable with.
2007-01-08 16:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are Bisexual & absolutely NORMAL guy. Yes you marry a woman , but you can enjoy physically with both woman & man till you are mentally & physically satisfied with such relationship, nothing wrong in this.
2007-01-08 16:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think u r bisexual and i know lots of bisexual people who is married
2007-01-08 16:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by tara tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should ask these types of questions to the professionals. You know, your biology teacher, your guidance counselor, your parents...you get the picture.
2007-01-08 15:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
experimental and/or bisexual
2007-01-08 15:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mental problem
2007-01-08 15:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Near of DN 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋