Not giving away anything, but they have a boy at my skool that my Ex Bestfriend use to go with. I know he like me, but just don't want to say it. But he is like a brother to me. what should i do about that. i really don't like him more than just a friend/ brother.
2007-01-08 15:38:03 · 16 answers · asked by Phibby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if hes like a brother keep it that way it would be incest any other way good luck and good day
2007-01-08 15:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been hit by the "ur like a brother" speech before. Even though it stings a little to hear a girl say that, it is way better for you to tell him straight up.
But trust me, do not actually use the word "brother". Do not do not do not. It hurts really bad. Just say things like "ur a really great friend and I'd hate to ruin that".
2007-01-08 23:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing until he makes a move, if you do hell only deny it. At least thats what I wold do, I mean how embarising wold it be for him if you are right, He probably thinks hes playing it cool, and you telling him hes that obvious will just make him ma and perhaps lose you a friend. I would say that you need to continue as if unti he says he likes you and if you dont feel the same at that time you need to tell him the truth, dont lead him on, he will understand if he really is your friend. I was in this same situation, only as the guy and I really respected my "girl" FRIEND for telling me the truth and I moved on and we are still great friends.
2007-01-08 23:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by cridec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he likes you more than a "sister" or "friend"? Until he does tell you how he feels, just treat him as you feel...like a brother. If and when he does announce his feelings, let him down gently by telling him the truth. Tell him you love him like a brother/friend and don't want to ruin the relationship you have by getting involved romantically.
2007-01-08 23:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell him the truth if you don't like him just cause you aren't interested. However, your EX bestfriend shouldn't be an issue because you aren't betraying a "friend" if you did like this guy.
2007-01-08 23:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tgrman80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing at this point, you may be pleasantly surprised to learn he's really not interested in you for more than a friend either.
2007-01-08 23:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Heaven's Messenger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this will sound a little cheesy but go with ur heart i mean it your ex best friend whats she going to do spank u and take away ur birthday lol anywho just go with the flow.
2007-01-08 23:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by brittany ambrozaitis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You answerd the question all by yourself YOU see him as a friend/brother so there it is. You will out last all his relationships.
2007-01-08 23:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by miay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you only like him for a brother friend. don't date him. ever. you might lose your friend
2007-01-08 23:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just tell him that you like him and then youll know if he likes you back
2007-01-09 00:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by Hotstuff1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋