especially if you feel your personal life is basically gone down the drain. how can i still keep focussed and succeed without thinking...OMG i can't believe ____ did that or _____ did this. How could they do that to me? All this time I don't call or communicate and I feel I have reached the acceptance stage but no matter how much I try to not let it interfere with me now, it does bother me. I want to do well and not let it bother me and really be focussed without trying to figure out why things happened the way they did and what happened as nobody told me the entire story. I know it doesn't matter but my emotions are getting in the way of my dreams.
2007-01-08 15:36:53 · 4 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Focus on yourself and what you need first.
If you go down right now it isn't going effect them at all.
Ask yourself what will be most important to you in 2 years---the people hurting you or your education.
To keep studying make short goals---like you are going to study for 10 minuets at least.
Keep doing 10 minuets at a time and you will get through it.
2007-01-08 15:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wondered that my entire academic career. The thing that got me to study was looming deadlines, fear of flunking a class and worrying that I wouldn't pass.
2007-01-08 15:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by ANSWER MY QUESTION!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay focused on your goals - education is power and freedom and stays with you forever
2007-01-08 15:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by spider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes down to it, only the Nike motto remains.
2007-01-08 18:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋