well me and my ex are on talking terms...i want a mans point of view when it comes to your ex's????what does it mean when a man kisses on the cheek and hugges their babys mother good bye every time they pick up or drop off their child????my ex of a year and a half has just started this about a month ago and some times it drives me nuts because he will insist on it.....and i try not to give in but i don't want him mad at me....does he have feelings for me still and just don't want to tell me....and he always calls for the sillyest things at times when he does not have his child.....what is all this about????so please enlighten me on this....thank you!!
2007-01-08 15:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes he still cares about you.I'm going through the same thing i love my wife but she doens't want to be with me anymore.Its so hard not to hug and give her a kiss when i see her,but i have to move on and i'm doing it.good luck
2007-01-08 15:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by zzbudzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally weird. You should not allow that at all. You need to ask him to stop it. When I drop my daughter off, I talk to my ex and say good bye. There shouldn't be any hugs or kisses. When he calls, don't pick up the phone. It is not normal for an ex do what he is doing.
2007-01-09 01:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he isn't getting any and is trying to get some from you. remember why you got the divorce in the first place and if it was your decision and for a good reason don't play into him and tell him it is time to move on. even if he doesn't want to take it farther it is a control method used to keep you from moving on while he still does.
2007-01-08 23:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by schlepp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say what all that means, could be soooo many things. He could be pushing your buttons.? He could of changed in this past year and a half.? He could have someone in his life that is making him a happier person.? Good luck and be a good sport about it. It could be worse, right?
2007-01-08 23:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ann_swer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a lady's point of view: He wants to get in your panties if you let him. (It is disrespectful the way you allow him to treat you). If he really loved or still love you; he wouldn't have left. If you want sex just have it with someone else other than your ex... Lady, value yourself and move on! Do not get stuck in the past, move on...
2007-01-08 23:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Playing games but its the children that lose all the way around.
2007-01-08 23:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my ex dont even speak, so this is not normal to me, he loves you it sounds like.
2007-01-08 23:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Phyllis D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already have a baby with him and yet you are still clueless with his current actions? of course he still loves you! why would he do those things if he doesn't? probably just don't have enough guts to tell you.
2007-01-08 23:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋