2007-01-08 14:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by darkmaterial 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i just cant get over it...
i do hate myself for the person ive become...
i feel like no one really cares and every single person just HATED me... and just USED me...
some of them are really close to me like i do cared for them but for them its just nothing.. so it means IM WORTHLESS... ive been like cutting myself and yeah.. i do own a personal knife... i just wanna DIE!!
2007-01-08 14:58:10 · update #1
Very simple. Forget about them, by the way, if you are holding a grudge against that person, don't! I let out my feelings by writing in a diary, speaking to water then pouring it away, or writing my emotions on a piece of paper then burning it. Just be nice to that person, cuz' if you are mean to that person, you're just about the same person that he is... Don't worry... : ) Be Happy...
2007-01-08 14:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in college, I had a roommate that I wasn't getting along with at all. Anyway, my best friend of almost 10 years had sort of struck up a friendship with her after coming to visit me at school. I found a letter that my best friend had written to my roommate, and in it she said horrible things about me. (The majority of which weren't true--they were completely made up-- and some that had some truth in them, like disagreements that she and I had had over the years, that I THOUGHT were resolved amicably.) It hurt TERRIBLY. I literally grieved like you do when someone dies. I saw, though, that this person who I had trusted so well for so long, was no friend of mine. I never called her to question her about the letter, I never said anything to my roommate about the letter, I just cut off all contact with the friend. Probably the best thing I ever did, because later I found out from some other school friends, that she had been doing things like that for all the years we'd been friends, and that I wasn't the only one she'd done that kind of thing to. I still have lots of friends, and as far as I know, she has virtually no one. She only hangs out with people for a short time, until they get sick of her constant criticism and end the friendship.
2007-01-08 22:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my best friend slept with my boyfriend - who was her stepbrother - gross huh? i forgave her but i will never forget or totally trust her like i once did ever again
2007-01-08 22:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON.
2007-01-08 22:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋