I live with my boyfriend. The one thing that bothers me is he is always on an online game. How do I get him to get off the computer? It's really annoying. And he gets mad if I ask him to get off. Sex doesn't work so thats not an option. Please help.
2007-01-08 14:15:13 · 14 answers · asked by meland84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe there's a bigger problem than the online games. I used to date a guy obsessed with online games and I hated it SOOOOOOO MUCH when he would just zone out and play his games. If he's not wanting to spend time with you, move on. Ask him to spend time with you, going out or watching a movie at home together. See what he says and if he's nonresponsive I recommend you move on.
Hope that helps sweetie. I of all people understand what you're dealing with.
2007-01-08 14:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont think its fair of you to make him give up his game everybody needs something but it IS fair of you to ask him to cut down on his playing time, especially if your and your sons relationship with him is lacking because of it. Just dont go off and start accusing him of it. Pick a time when youre both relaxed and tell him you miss him and would like it if you spent a little more time together. Show him some love and what hes missing. Maybe hes so wrapped up in his game hes forgotten a little how good family time can be.
2016-05-22 21:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he gets on line to play the games, you get ready and leave, go to a movie with a friend, bowling or any where. Always come back late. If he gets mad, tell him that you need some fun too and that while he is on line and not paying you any attention that you will be going out with friends, at least they give you some attention.
2007-01-08 14:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the internet removed from your residence. That is probably only solution but may cause other problems. Try to discuss the situation with him in an open and mature manner and if he is reasonable he and you can set up a schedule for him to play his games. Best of luck.
2007-01-08 14:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't accept that playing online games is something he really enjoys doing, then I think you need to find a new boyfriend.
2007-01-08 14:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harsh as it may be, threaten to break up with him unless he takes a break. Not quits completely, that's like quitting smoking- just tell him "once a week you can play". And no offense, but he should get that checked out... I've never heard of a man who wouldn't favor sex over games.
SEX>GAMES.
2007-01-08 14:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by gamer92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a boyfriend that doesn't play online games.
2007-01-08 14:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring another girl or girls into your bed room. Guarantee he'll stop playing online games. Good luck
2007-01-08 14:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it.
If that doesnt work, turn the fuse off the powers the computer.
Disconnect the internet, there are alot of things you can do.
2007-01-08 14:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to change people, if he enjoys playing online games so be it, would you rather it be porn?
2007-01-08 14:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋