I am dead serious. 30 years of faithfull love to my wife and I mean completely faithfull. I am dieing for sex from a different woman. I mean, a young tight hot woman. Why is this so wrong? I am beginning to think monogamy is not natural. I love my wife to death and would never leave her, but all I am asking for is one night with a new vagina. It doesn't mean I don't love my wife or even like the one night with a strage woman. Why is this so confusing for our culture?
I JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX, ONCE...PLEASE GOD, JUST ONCE WITH A NEW PIECE.
Please help me, what should I do?
2007-01-08 13:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your right Noname humans are one of the only animals that do (or are suppose to according to society's norms anyway) live a monogamous lifestyle. But to ask your lady to supply you with a prostitute for a night after 30 years of marriage may be one of the most dangerous things you could do. Fact is when you took your vows you swore to remain faithful to your wife so you were more then aware of what you'd be facing in 30 years, sorry for being so blunt. You do deserve kudo's for being faithful and married for that length of time but sorry don't think it justifies the use of a working girl for the night. Perhaps you can suggest that your lady gets a wig and does some role play or go on a second honeymoon to try and rekindle the romance in your relationship. Best of luck and congrats again for 30 years of marriage.
2007-01-08 14:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man can love their wife to death if they are looking for
sex somewhere else. As for what should you do, you do
nothing, stay being faithful to your wife it's that plain and
simple, because if you start straying away now you will
continue to stray.If you want another woman then buy
yourself a plastic one as I imagine they come in differr-
ent sizes , and it's a lot cheaper,.
2007-01-08 23:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to judge you, I don't have 30 years of marriage after all. The truth is - you'll never stop thinking of it until you do it...
Do what you think is best, the decision is yours, just act smart and don't put your marriage in jeopardy!
Btw I don't think that asking your wife is a smart idea.
2007-01-08 22:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by baby2007 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the only way for you to do this and not ruin your marriage is to have a threesome or foursome, so all's fair. But you have to be OK with someone else having your wife - can you handle that?
2007-01-08 22:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Renny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's your wife! Be monogamous, faithful. You married the woman. Stick with what you vowed thirty years ago.
2007-01-08 22:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by WhatTheFrenchToast? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not it's culturally acceptable isn't as important as whether or not your wife agrees. Remember that you vowed to foresake all others - and until she releases you from that vow, you're stuck.
2007-01-08 22:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think this is between you and your wife. Until she says yes, then the answer is undoubtedly no.
2007-01-08 22:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by TransyMAJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, mate, are you asking for a firestorm with this one.
if your wife says no, that is what is wrong.
if she was willing to a consensual encounter with someone she got to know and trust...different story.
until she is game, no new nunnie for you
2007-01-08 22:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by atlas shrugged and so do i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will be hurt... I will !!!
No ones in love likes to be substitute for some one else whatever you will call that person (prostitute.)... Didn't you ?
2007-01-08 23:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mystefeis 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur a jerk you married for better or for worse. to stay faithful. that is one of god ten commandments. tell me this is a joke please. Are men really that obsessed with a piece of tail from somone other than the one they are suppose to love for the rest of their life.
2007-01-08 22:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋