my parents dont kno that i am even going out with guy...he's 17...we've been on and off for six months. my name is "ariel" i just used my friends email...please help me.
2007-01-08 13:55:50 · 23 answers · asked by jay jay 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Why don't you wait until you find out for sure. That way you wont have to worry them for nothing. Then when and if the time comes be honest. Tell them the truth and do it soon. They will be cooler than you think. Mine were. Also be prepared to tell them what you have planned for you and this baby (adoption, keep it, etc.) And how you plan to pay for it. Make sure you know about the boy you are dating and how he is going to play into the situation. That way when they ask (and they will) you can have an answer. Take a test as soon as possible and then prepare yourself. Good luck
2007-01-08 14:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been having unprotected sex with this guy then i would be worried. If you are not on the pill i would get on it. I was on the pill at your ages and i wasn't even with anyone yet.
Why do you think you are pregnant? If you have missed a period and you are being sick(any time of day, not just in the morning) then i would get a test. If it is positive sit down with your guy first and talk about what you want to do and what your options are. Then i would tell your parents. If you are not pregnant then you can quit stressing.
Then somehow (if your not pregnant) bring it up in a general conversation that you have just met a guy and blah blah blah. You make up the rest.
2007-01-08 22:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teen Pregnancy :
- Mothers Too Soon
- A Global Tragedy
- Facing the Challenges of Teen Motherhood
- Help and Protection for Young Ones
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2004/10/8/article_01.htm
2007-01-09 03:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them...its done, you just need to decide what you will do now that you are in this condition. Just don't put the burden on the baby. The baby didn't ask to be made. The first thought is to always get rid of the baby but that doesn't solve anything because the problem is not the baby, but the choices we make in life.
Many a 16 year olds have survived with a baby...your parents are your greatest support and help right now. PLEASE TELL THEM NOW......this is serious, its time grow up for the baby's sake.
2007-01-09 01:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by S C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your parents are like, but I'd at least try to tell them straight out. If you can't handle that, write or type up a letter explaining it all, including a heartfelt apology to them for not letting them know you were dating, etc., and telling them you love them and you want them to know what happened. There's other stuff you could say, but it's your letter and I wouldn't want to put words in your mouth. If you are pregnant and you want to have the kid, make sure you love and trust the guy you're dating. It's best for you to go through a pregnancy with as much support as you can get. If it turns out you're not really pregnant, I'd still tell your parents you've been dating and have lost your virginity. They deserve to know.
2007-01-08 22:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by adanarama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find out for sure first. the best thing i can suggest is to wait out the first three months as you wont start showing till after that. since you'll be out of the danger zone it will be clear that you are having a baby. you don't wont to worry your parents over nothing if you happen to have a miscarriage.
2007-01-09 02:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are pregnant first. If you are, sit down and talk with your parents calmly. You have to tell them and be honest. They will be angry at first but they will give you the support you need. If you're not.. use a condom and birth control!
2007-01-08 22:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I might be going through the same problem soon since me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex...I think the best way to tell them is to just confront them, tell them that you know it was a stupid mistake and that you need help right away.
2007-01-08 22:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy Lee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know you could write a note but my friends going threw the same thing only shes 14 turning 15 in april =\
2007-01-08 22:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to test first or miss your period. I need more details to know if you are or not. I would tell them only if you knew for sure and make sure next time you are more careful or not doing it at all
2007-01-08 22:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by mommy of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋