I am bi and I met this girl about 3 months ago she is perfect in everyway she makes me laugh and smile. I really love her being with my but the bad thing is that she is bi and has a bf. She and him have been going out for a year. Her bf gets jealous of me and he almost forced her to break up with me but she just said that we need to calm down and act like we were not going out. Every time I see her with her bf I have to leave or act like I never see them and it is really hurting my heart. One day I almost told her that I could not do it any more but I decided not too. So I am not for sure what to do, we barely get to spend time together and I am hurting really bad. So if you could please tell me what do you think I should do?
2007-01-08 13:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It looks like she has hey boyfriend as the main course and you as the dessert. Sorry for the crude metaphor. Now if you're not the type who is in multiple partners and playing around (which I assume you aren't since you're hurting...) then there's no use going through with this. She has to decide.
You might be able to pick up a thing or two from what I've just been through. I dropped the bombshell on the girl i loved for 7 years. No doubt about it, we love each other and can be together for the rest of our lives... But she looks for guys on the side. They're not relationships, but she goes out with them on the side and I got tired of being pissed. So I told her to decide. We both knew what I wanted, but she doesn't know what she wants... Of course I'm not gonna kick her to the curb after what she did, but I told her I'm drifting away... And yeah, the metaphor is I'm the main course and she eats dessert somewhere else... but who wants their partners eating at different tables!?!?
I guess your friend doesn't also know what she really wants... She has to decide. And so do you. What do you want?
2007-01-08 14:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dont luv u enough 2 break up with her bf than u need 2 find a real woman or men that will i mean no offense but u liked her 4 three months now so u need 2 accept the fact she doesnt luv u like u luv her so maybe its time 2 move on good luck:)
2007-01-08 14:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a bit tricky! if this girl LOVES you then she would break up with her bf and stick with you! but if she's not sure, call her and have a SERIOUS talk about it, tell her how you feel and ask her if she like's you enough to at least tell her bf to layoff! And if your to broken hearted, id get somewon new!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-08 16:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rin_san44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babygirl, you should break up with her.#1 shes living a double life and #2 she dont really love you. if she really does she wouldnt be ashamed to let him know shes in love with you. so just break up with her b4 she stressess you and break your heart.
2007-01-09 01:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by SKITTLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you shouldn't be with someone who is already in a relationship with someone else in the first place.
2007-01-09 07:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to move on girl. That's what sucks about being bisexual.
2007-01-08 13:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loves u,she would dump her bf and be with u
2007-01-08 14:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has you on the side , if you dont like it , find someone new
2007-01-08 13:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that she puts him before you if i were u i wouldnt put up with that crap
:)
2007-01-08 13:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋