Did you ever go back to a relationship to try again?

Question

Has anyone ever gone back after breaking up a bad realtionship?

Have you been in a verbally/emtionally abusive realationship, then broke up, he went to therapy and then you tried again?

Was it better the second time around? Do you know anyone who did this? How was it for them? Did things change or get better?

Were you the abusive one? Did someone give you another chance and it worked out for the best?

just curious

Answer 1

My advice...don't go back and make the same mistake twice. I was in a verbally abusive relationship and I stayed and stayed hoping it would get better. It never did. I got to my last straw took my son and moved out. He will never change. They say they will and promise and even treat you great to get you back. Don't buy it Hon, find a guy who treats you right!

Answer 2

Bottom line... people never really change. If there's something this guy did Iike being abusive or controlling... he's not gonna turn into mr charming all the sudden. I was a fool and I've gone back into many bad relationships MANY times. I'm talking on again off again for 3 and a half years when it should have been over the first week. My suggestion would definately be, when it's over, it's over. Don't go back and try to make it work.

Answer 3

Sad to say people rarely change. I believe in giving people second chances but at what point is enough enough? If the relationship is that bad and abusive I would suggest you get some counseling to help you understand why you are addicted and move on.

Answer 4

I was physically abused and my hubby and i seperated!! I swore that i would never go back to that life. He put his self through therpy and when he was finished he called me up. I told him that i still loved him and that we would give it a 2nd try but if i even felt like it would be the same crap over again i would leave and never return. I am glad i gave that 2nd chance to him cause i wouldn't have this wonderful marriage and these great kids.... I think that if you see that person trying to help them selves i would say yes go for it.. You never know. I was told that my husband would never change and i would be beat the rest of my life if i stayed. WRONG!!! I couldn't have a better hubby.. Good luck and the best of wishes!!!!

Answer 5

for my section a courting is both on or off.. no longer both. it would want to't artwork. if it truly is off attempt to attach it yet after some tries if the topics are nonetheless there drop it and flow on. if it doesn't artwork the first 2 cases or so then it received't artwork lengthy time period.

Answer 6

Yes and it is ending in divorce. It ended violently. I wished I could've snapped his neck, he threw me on the floor and tried to choke me. It was just as bad the second time around, it just took a while to re surface.

Answer 7

yes..i did.i was the abused one at first then on the second time (with the same guy) i was the abusive one.. then we decided it won't work out the third time..

second chances are ok but not a third one..

Answer 8

i left my ex 3 times before this last time everytime i went back NOTHING CHANGED. my only reget now is putting myslelf thru TRYING so many times i'm clearly better off without him.

Answer 9

I WENT BACK TO A RELATIONSHIP BUT NOT FOR THAT REASON. HE NEVER ABUSED ME, IT WAS SOMETHING PERSONAL. AND IT DIDN'T WORK OUT. WE TRIED, BUT IT WAS BEST THAT WE DIDN'T SEE EACH OTHER ANYMORE.

Answer 10

alot of times i a relationship dioesnt work once then it doesnt tend to work again unless you absolutly love each other