I was trying to get my wife to give it up the other night... She said, and I quote... "you need a fu*k'n trip to Vegas"
Ladies, any of you gals feel the same way?
2007-01-08 13:35:06 · 13 answers · asked by and,or,nand,nor 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hahaha , Was she Drunk? lol~ The reason I ask is because last month My fiance and I went to Miami for vacation and I got trashed and he wanted some and I was just way to wasted so I said "You can go f*ck someone Else if you want" I didn't mean it . I just wanted him to get away. I know that sounds terrible. I was trashed.
2007-01-08 13:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
heck no! you should be not only be sharing sex but ask point blank what is it you would like in our relationship. I betcha' it will not be sex! If she says ...nothing....don't accept it! I'm a female and do say nothing when I'm trying to figure it out on my own so I'm not blamed now or later that it's my problem. Saying "nothing" should have the reply from the male of I'll let that be the answer today but tomorrow I hope you feel comfortable enough to share your thoughts tomorrow. THEN be there for her, on her side to understand how she feels. To admit you can imagine how she feels is a great step if you can actually honestly understand she has these feelings. You don't have to HAVE the feelings but at least admit you understand women feel emotionally different than males. DON"T go to vegas!!
Tell her she is worth so much you would hate to disgrace her in this way.
Is it sex or love she wants. Love, I bet, so let her know you acknowledge her feelings, LISTEN, give positive feedback and I bet you'll have some success.
Go to Dale Carnegie Course ~~~ it's great for relationships.
2007-01-08 13:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by joleeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not feel that way, but why not go to Vegas, play the slots, some poker, have some fun. By the time you get back, she may never say that again.. Be sure to take enough money out of the account to have a really , really good time. She told you to do, go for it. Have fun.
2007-01-08 13:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um i am not married but i do know that a lot of ladies like going to las vegas
2007-01-08 13:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dance Gal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is usual for a guy to go there alone, with friends, or girlfriend. Usually people think that they gamble, or juat a lovely trip with their family, friends, or girlfriend. I say go for it, but if u really don't want to tell her, if so why!!!!!
2007-01-08 13:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by ~VICKY~ online talk ta me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL I live in Vegas...maybe she thinks you should go to the bunny ranch_
2007-01-08 13:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did she want to send you to the Bunny Ranch ? That's not cheap,be prepared to pay big bucks for that.But since she's sending you,have her pay.
2007-01-08 13:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants you to make love to her instead of you trying to get her to "give it up". Could be you're treating her like a hooker instead of a lover.
2007-01-08 13:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY SOMETIMES WE WOMEN DO NOT FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX!!!! GET OVER IT AND QUIT TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY!
2007-01-08 13:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Smiles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you are still married to her because??
2007-01-08 13:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋