If you were going to leave your husband or boyfriend because you have had enough of his inconsideration, insenisitivity, hurtful ways and had discussed all this with him time after time and haven't seen any real improvments. Would you let him know ahead of time that you were leaving, leave him a note or just leave and tell him nothing?
2007-01-08 13:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I had given plenty of prior warning that if he didn't lift his game I'd leave, and he still didn't change, I would leave when he was at work or out, with no letter. It seems you've made it clear what's wrong, so why give him a letter? He'll know why you left.
2007-01-08 13:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by kmlloveplant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have talked to him about this behavior and he just didn't change or at least try then i wouldn't really care how it got done just as long as it did... I would never let him know ahead of time i was leaving there is just to much volience in the world for that. i think i would leave a note or just leave.. Good luck
2007-01-08 13:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sherman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't give him a chance to hurt you. i was like him at one time and i was arrested for domestic violence i put my wife in a head lock because she was punching me. Across the road was a police officer. so i was of to jail. that was 7 years ago it saved are marriage made me wake up that it is wrong being an *** hole to your loved one. But back in the day i would of needed revenge you no pay back so cover your a ss and run away with no notice. He will try to get you back at any cost all he tells you will be lies and he will try to make you fell sorry for him. don't buy it i am talking about no can i come over and talk none of that crap don't give him any room. I was him at one time keep your eyes open because when his sadness wears off his anger will pick up.
2007-01-08 13:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by hotrod in 7-11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave and tell him nothing! The point is mute since you've already talked to him about it so there's really nothing else to say.
2007-01-08 13:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave, but clean out the bank accounts first.
2007-01-08 14:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and tell him nothing. Just make sure you havent left anything behind or left any bills or joint accounts in your name.
2007-01-08 13:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's totally up to you --i personally left the note - i didn't want to deal with the drama
2007-01-08 13:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him when you get where you are going.
2007-01-08 13:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by tim b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋