i was at battle of the bands a like last week an i was hanging out with this girl who is 4 years older than me, i know her rather well and all.. so, we were talking for a few minutes and the next thing i know after we stop, she has her head on my shoulder just looking at me, i leaned my head on her too. we stayed like that for a few minutes and at the end of the song she just looked up at me (im about 5'10" and she's like 5'5") and smiled. i didnt think much of it then, but a little later she started randomly hugging me and stuff, so im really not sure if any of these are relevant or anything, but my real question is do you think she likes me? i think she's straight and im bi, but no one knows, like i havent told anyone, i have not told her or anyone. thanks!!
2007-01-08 13:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe she just consider you as being a close friend, try not to read too much into it.
2007-01-08 13:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes not as straight as you think. Maybe shes got a little curiosity in her. If you know her rather well do you normally see her hugging people? She's knows your bi? Maybe next time you hang out try this: putting your head on her again and when she's looking at you give it a minute and then lean in and nicely ask her "whats up". You may just get an answer like she just needs a friend or you may get the answer your looking for. Good luck.
2007-01-08 14:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by jweh8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communications is the best and most important part of life. Stop wondering and stop all the dizzy questions--just ask in a nice way--at the right time. Discovering your own identity and experiencing life when you are ready--is great fun and should be fun--not scary or threatening. Go talk to this person--see if she meant anything---of course always be nice and be respectful. good luck
2007-01-08 15:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait it out before I made any clear distinctions. If there's any more signs there's a high chance she might be interested. Become good friends with her, and then someday tell her that you're bi...see what her reaction is. Or you might want to ask her "what do you think about bi sexuality"
2007-01-08 13:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so little affection in the world, and when we experience it, it just renews us. It may be friendship of she may be romantically drawn to you. The real question here is, do you like her? If you do, why don't you ask her out. She may be sending the signs, or just wanting to be "intimate" friends... But if you don't like her.... well, you wouldn't really be asking this question here, would you? ;)
So ask her out! Before you spend sleepless nights wondering what could be. We're just throwing darts here... you're the one who really sees her and can gauge your effect on her.
2007-01-08 13:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave things the way they are. Let her make the move. If she does then she is interested. If she doesn't then she is just someone who likes to hug. Either way, you have a friend.
2007-01-08 14:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell her! I know girls that are just friendly, like to hug and kiss on the cheek as a friendship way!
But they know I'm bi and were just being a fu*king tease....i hate them! they do it to dudes too! I guess that's their little way of saying I'm cute and want me to try to approach them!
I'm sorry I'm just as confused as you!
but its obvious she like you! even if it is friendship or girlfriend type way! But you should just tell her!
2007-01-12 19:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel. Maybe she will feel the same. But im like the flirten around and only friends. But u still need to tell her what you feel like.
2007-01-14 12:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Crain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she might have a crush on you, she might not. She might have a psychological need to be very close with her friends, she might not.
Only she and time and can tell you.
2007-01-08 13:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you told alot of people right now, i think that you shouldnt think to much into it maybe shes those type of people that hug alot
:)
2007-01-08 13:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋