2007-01-08 13:26:29 · 13 answers · asked by jamzesmom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My house is not horrible...I am not talking filth...I am talking on a few occasions his work clothes were not clean and dishes in the sink...the house is lived in...not horrible.
But I do work too,,,,but....not as many hours....ok....20 hours a week...to his 80 after drive time....
2007-01-08 14:11:11 · update #1
God, I hope that doesn't become some kind of trend or anything. LOL. I am a realllly bad house wife too!
I just remind my husband how bad his ex-wife was (cheating, lying and spending all his money) and tell him to be thankful my flaw is both visible and changeable!
Try to over compensate in other areas, it usually works!
2007-01-08 13:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be stressed. 80 hours a week is a lot of working and I feel that maybe you may not physically understand how tiring that is. If you are going to be a house wife which basically with those hours you are then you should make sure his work clothes are always clean and food is always on the table at least. Basically take care of man and home and that's the way to be the best housewife. I tend to find a few of the at home wives I know with no children are lazy, and I'm not saying that you are but I am saying that I think you need to look at the bigger picture if this man is trying to provide a roof over your head for the most part and loves you take care of him then!!
2007-01-08 23:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Saude! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is comfortable living in a pig pen, then why should he? If on the other hand, he thinks you will change, then of course he should. For you wont get better when married.
Look, you women are always talking about how men should help you. Well, if a man has to work, come home and do all there and so forth, what does he gain from marriage? You know ladies, many of you would be wise to view life a bit from a perspective other then your own all the time, if you have the capacity to do so that it.
2007-01-08 21:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband would give me a choice clean house or he would leave me. Alot of people don't like crappy houses.Why do you even want to live like that? I mean my house aint spotless but it aint crappy either I would be a shame of it. Are you happy living like that? I mean come on and the way it sounds your fiance aint to happy with your choices. Get off the pc or the couch and clean your house up.
2007-01-08 22:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Babie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to master looking after a household. It's taken me 5 years and I am just getting the hang of this. It sounds like you fiance wants a mommy not a wife. You are better off without him
2007-01-08 21:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but hear me out! First, if he thinks you are a crappy housewife, do you really want him???? Second, if you feel he is correct in his summary of you, I'm sure you have been aware, but choose not to obliege him (do what he thinks is right). So the real question is do you want him or not?? Your actions speak louder than anything I can write here. Good Luck to the both of you.
2007-01-08 21:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by kimberlee g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't work and he does, I would say yes. If both of you work, you both should work todgeter to keep a clean house. I am assuming that you meant clean house.
2007-01-08 21:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, do you cook? do you clean the house? do you wash the clothes? If the answer is no, then yes, he should dump you.
2007-01-08 21:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he considers certain things important deal breakers, then I would say YES he should dump you if you are not living up to his expectations. The same would apply to him if he was not living up to your expectations.
2007-01-08 21:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean a house keeper??? Absolutely not! You have a lot more to offer than just cleaning a toilet!!!!!
2007-01-08 21:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋