ok it was about a month ago that i found out that my boyfriend has a othere yahoo messenger well he has like 3 od tham diff one that i can see and 2 that i cant and i found what the email was and password so i check it And o-my god all thats on his 2 messenger email are guys i cant really say but i just want to no how do you no if your man you love is gay?????
2007-01-08 12:50:39 · 15 answers · asked by blue-butterfly 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ask him. Mabey the're jsut old friends and that's the only way that they'll know to get a hold of him. if you love him so much trust him to tell you the truth
2007-01-08 12:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by enharmonicgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did not say if you are having sex with him or not.
If not, then you may not be able to tell. Afterall, even He may not have "come out" to himself. You could ask him though. Or, a sneaky method is to start snooping around the profiles of his "friends" which are listed. See if the majority of them are openly "gay". Who knows though, he could be bi-sexual.
If you are in a sexual relationship with him then introduce some "things" into your sex life which you think are "kinda gay" and see how he responds. Use your imagination here cause only you would know what to introduce.
One question you can ask yourself:
Is he sexually attracted to me, or just trying to prove his manhood to himself?
2007-01-08 13:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, when you submit a question, I would suggest that you use the special assist called "check spelling."
2nd, why are you snooping around him. If you have a question, why not show some respect to him and his privacy, and just simply ask him, straight forward.
2007-01-08 12:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by bobbye71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesnt' make any sense. Calm down and re-write it in English and maybe we can help you.
I can kind of get the gist of what you're saying but I need more details...
2007-01-08 12:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Μαcαbrε Mαidεη 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is in the email? If you are asking the question then you usually have the answer. Did you consider he if he is maybe just bisexual? Are their any friends that are just too close?
2007-01-08 12:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by grnevl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't really think you can tell unless they verbally tell you they are gay. You can't really tell by their mannerisms because not all gay people are flamboyant. The only way to know is if he tells you.
2007-01-08 12:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to good old honesty? Ask him and tell him why you are asking him.......What kind of a relationship do you have if you can not be honest with each other?
2007-01-08 12:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed to admit you went into his personal business. Ask instead of being a ***** about it. If he always wants anal sex then you answered your own question.
2007-01-08 16:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Miz Val 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not gay but sometiems i feel bisexual even though ims traight but watch if he looks at other guys butts or something. trsut me liek go on a date woith him and watch where his eyes go. he might be bi
2007-01-08 13:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be bi. If he really gets into sex with you, likely he's not gay. But he could be bi. Which is cool. Have a talk with him.
2007-01-08 12:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋