she is my ex best friend from elementary school i used to be great friends with her until she and my other friend decided to ditch me i'm not mad anymore and we get along fine but my question is what should i do? i feel like i should do something because she used to be my best friend. i'm now in 7th grade and shes had cancer for a year but now its really bad and the doctors have giving up
2007-01-08 12:38:04 · 6 answers · asked by Cloudyday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Call her to see how she is and to let her know you'd like to see her. If she's up to seeing you, set up a time when you can go visit. Don't be negative in any discussion. Instead of the "I'm sorry you're dying" attitude, do the "I'm glad to see you" style and try to cheer her up with funny stories or whatever.
Is she well enough to go to the movies or anything like that? Maybe you can take her out.
Most importantly, follow up. Stay in touch once you've resumed contact. Don't make it a one-shot thing.
2007-01-08 13:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Plumeria Passion 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
It is time that you put everything behind you and go and see her.
she needs someone to talk to and you two have a past together.
Be her friend, do not judge ,do not feel sorry for her, just be there.
Help her with stuff. help her live what is left of her life.
She is not dead yet, so do not treat her like she is.
Tell her jokes, be funny, make her laugh and if she is able, go to the show, have pizza parties together. Have sleep overs..talk to her mom and invite all her friends over.....
This is a time that she needs you .... give to her and don't turn your back on her, even tho she did it to you.
She is now in a position where she knows she did wrong, but she can't change it... You can change it by accepting her for her and not wanting an apology. She might need to vry and tell you about fear, allow her to talk about it, you might be the only one she can talk to about it. This is a very serious task to undertake, do it 110% or don't do it at all.
2007-01-08 12:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. Spend as much time with her as you can. You don't have to know the right things to say, but be with her and I am sure it will help her feel better. You can ask her if there's anything she needs or wants you to do for her.
2007-01-08 12:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by alt-country_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her how you feel.Ask how she has been doing mabye she ddin't want to ditch you at all mabye she was being a follower.just go visit her ok i think she would like that
2007-01-08 12:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by aohottie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should visit her at least to make her feel good talk about the good time you's have together you feel much better if you do that
2007-01-08 12:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be the friend you used to be.
2007-01-08 13:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by dzwomper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋