I'm sooo confused!!!!!! I'm I getting the wrong signals from this female who I feel like be flirting with me!

Question

Me and this female started hanging out alot about 3 months ago and i feel like we flirt with each other. I have never been attracted to a female . We talk 4 or 5 times a day, we stay on the phone for hours until 3-4 in the am. we joke about being hurt or sad if we can't talk to each other or if one person does not call. She come over to my house and we find reasons to touch each-nothing major. We send messages saying why do we paly these games but never really saying it. I think or thought she was a lesbian so I tell her I like her/feel something and she respond by saying I never thought you would say it-I like you but not that way. So I apologize and say I didn't mean it that way and she say the next day-I don't always say what i mean and I could've been wrong why didn't you ask me why-So we continue to talk and I decide I wont talk to her for a day and she call to say I miss you and I don't know why. I said you don't care if we talk she say I do care more than you will ever know.

Answer 1

ask the girl out and find out how she feels about you and really tell her how you feel

Answer 2

That is one of the fascinating paradoxes of sexuality. It ties itself to things pleasant. Fasten it in your head, "This is not about sex" and then do your get together. You are feeling aroused because it is natural for your hormones to rage, but in the process of fun with your friend, the triggers are constantly getting hit. Think of it as hitting the wrong key when typing or the wrong number when dialing the phone. It happens, it is habit, it is something nearby.

Just this morning, my wife and I were laughing and teasing about this and that as we drove in to work. There was a song on the radio and she said to me, "Am I the greatest thing in your life?" Well, sarcastic me, I said, "If not, you are way up there on the list." Suddenly she was hurt and offended. Mixed signals and unintended results are part of life and play and personal interactions. (I wrote her a poem and sent it, we are okay again)

In ancient times, they wrote of love between friends and expressed it in stronger terms than they did for love in marriage to a spouse. People didn't marry for love back then as often as many marriages being were arranged for social purposes or simply that so-and-so's son needed a wife and such-and-such's daughter needed a husband. Yet, while the ancients weren't quite always (definitely at times) keen on what we call romance, they could have these intense friendships. The homosexual community uses them to say, "See, they were homosexual!" when sex often had nothing to do with it. Yet the emotions and their triggers are often so very close, a thinking person can understand that the confusion simply happens.

It is not a problem, so recognize it and go on.

Answer 3

It does kinda sound like she's flirting with you. one in all my pals flirts with me all the time, yet she is one hundred% at once. some all and sundry is in simple terms super flirtatious. She would be bi or in keeping with possibility curious or in keeping with possibility she in simple terms has a woman weigh down on you. If she has a bf my guess is she's not severe with regard to the flirting, yet in simple terms doing it for exciting.

Answer 4

Is this only the first part of the story? I was starting obsessing over it.