to pay somebody to follow your boyfriend and find out if hes cheating ?
2007-01-08 12:24:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
No it is not !
There is a TV show called cheaters that does it all the time.
2007-01-08 12:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mark B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't illegal, that's what private detectives do.... however, if someone not licensed to do that type of work in your area ... such as a friend of yours.. and your boyfriend finds out that he is being tailed... he can contact the police and have the person arrested for stalking. If you hire a private detective and you will pay through the nose... and they see he is doing some illegal activity instead of cheating... he will then go to jail. Not only that but it isn't like this is your husband if he is your boyfriend and you feel this strongly about him cheating why don't you just move on. This is the type of things people with insecurity issues do, and to me is a bit extreme... if you caught him cheating... would it change anything or would you just ask him why.. and if that is the case.. you should already know the answer to why.. because you are too needy.. clingy....so really is it worth it?
2007-01-08 12:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you feel you need to pay someone to watch your boyfriend, then its time to get a new boyfriend. Life's to short, there's obviously something going on that made you think this way to begin with and that feeling alone sucks. I know from personal experience, but I just sucked it up, told him to get on and come to find out the intuitions that I kept having about him cheating were correct. So follow your instincts and don't waste your money.
If you absolutely feel the need to pay someone then there are P.I's that can do it for you. And it's not illegal.
Good Luck with everything
2007-01-08 12:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by *tiffany* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Legal As Long As They Keep Limit's And Do Go To Far! Are It Is Stalking! But People Do This All The Time.
2007-01-10 00:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...they're called Private Investigators.
2007-01-08 13:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by C B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally legal. Private investigating it's called. Professionals or friends can be used.
2007-01-08 12:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by 1truthseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you pay just anybody off the street yes it's illegal it's called stalking. You can hire a P.I. to do that work, they are legal and trained.
2007-01-08 12:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by bella9566 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want to hire a private investigator. That is a perfectly legitimate business.
2007-01-08 12:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by not yet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's how private detectives make their living. Also police also stake out and follow suspects all the time.....and they're paid by the taxpayers...
2007-01-08 12:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like stalking uless you hire a professional investigator who is both bonded and insured.
2007-01-08 12:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by dpon62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋