2007-01-08 12:19:11 · 24 answers · asked by zak 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
No in both cases.
2007-01-08 12:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes to the former, no to the latter, at least in my opinion. Perfect love would include perfect sex because perfect love is divine on all levels. You connect emotionally, spiritually & physically. It's very passionate & fulfilling. When you love each other intensely, obviously the sex will be amazing because you share so much intimacy.
On the other hand, perfect sex (a great physical chemistry) may not necessarily lead to perfect love. Many people (though I am not one of them) can have sex without love and can have a physically satisfying relationship without falling in love.
In my opinion (though I'm old fashioned & have only have been intimate with people that I loved & who loved me) the best sex is with someone that you love. Otherwise you are cheapening yourself & your partner & reducing sex to a physical act. Some people have a hard time letting go sexually with someone they love. They think that you either choose hot sex or a respectful loving relationship. But it is possible to have both. Perfect love is when you want to tear his clothes off & have hot sex but you also want to have deep philosophical conversations with him & play Scrabble & watch movies & wake up next to him every day for the rest of your life...
2007-01-08 20:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by amp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, perfect love is totally selfless, while sex is anything but. I think that sex can be almost a spiritual experience with the right partners. Sex never leads to love. If you are a female though, you are genetically programmed to have warm feelings about your partner. Now, the real problem would define what is perfect and I don't think they will let us talk about that here.
2007-01-08 23:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by gramma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In "Happily Ever After" maybe... But "perfect love" leads to an understand where you can get to the point of perfect sex. Really, more then half of great sex is an understanding of your partner that only comes through time.
2007-01-08 20:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starts in the brain and is is all but over when it really begans so perfectlove equals perfect sex,,,,Sex is never lasting and in the beginning is is FIRE and then it goes into a deeper spirit filled time of heavens opening up and the world is right and then it last and all this is from perfect loves which entails the same values, visions and what might be and goals, all in the line of one ness.Which is a magic jJUST between the two of you that surpasses all understanding.
2007-01-08 20:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's not forget that love and sex are 2 different things, although they are often connected. I think the idea of perfect love/sex is a matter of perception. Everyone has different ideas of what perfection is, in and of itself.
2007-01-08 20:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfection is a state of mind so if you think you have achieved perfect sex and/or love then you have. My thoughts on sex, it can never be too good so striving for perfect sex is a lifelong goal, have fun!!!
2007-01-08 20:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by jetfighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect love is what I feel for my children. Perfect sex is any.
2007-01-08 21:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Immortal Cordova 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amen. perfect love will generate perfect sex. even if it is lousy it doesn't matter cause you love th other so much. and then you can work on it and improve things when needed. Perfect love doesn't bring on perfect love. Someone was right it makes lust.
2007-01-08 20:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by poof10958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. My answer: neither.
You love someone greatly and the sex could be lousy, not saying they couldnt work on it, but it would start off lousy. Perfect sex leads to perfect LUST. You can't love someone because of sex, love requires much, much more.
2007-01-08 20:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it take more then perfect sex to fall in love.
2007-01-08 23:00:20 · answer #11 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋