when ur partner works on the advice of her parents and friends, and inspite of knowing all the wrong things & attitudes. parents r supporting her.
2007-01-08 12:06:52 · 21 answers · asked by webfrd07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why not they support their daughter??? No parent will say their child is wrong. Its now your decision what to do with such a life partner & if she happens to be unfaithful with you or indulge in adultery & you have evidence regarding this with you then seek divorce with her. Why you ask her parents or friends for checking her wrong things & attitudes.
2007-01-08 16:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly it happens in every persons life that his wife ignore him and lisen his paretns and friends. But if u want that ur partner lisen ur words then sit with him and talk a few hours with him.
And settle ur family affairs with each other and tell him that if he ask other persons the relationship with husband and wife is not good. Other person enjoy ur war.
OK
2007-01-12 03:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better u ask urself instead of us..
Is she makes u and ur family Happy?
Does she love u ?If she does ..is she taking care of u &ur feelings? Is this relationship will make u happy forever? or get rid of it.. Cause life is too short..if u don't have kids u should get rid of it...If u have kids u can't be separate so easily ..just leave her alone for a while she may realise her family value and urs too...
2007-01-08 13:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont give a lot of info here, but if she has been unfaithful and YOU want to work it out...you first have to see IF she wants to stay with you. IF not.....kiss her goodbye and fast. why put yourself thru more torture.
If you are willing to forgive her, you have to sit down and talk to her. you have to set boundaries in this relationship to make it work again. she must NOT under any circumstances have ANY contact with the other person. no calls, no meetings etc.... tell her exactly what you expect of her now. do not demand it.....be honest with your feelings. you could try counseling but it costs alot and may not work. bottom line is how much you BOTH are willing to work at the relationship NOW....time will heal but you may never forget. you have to try hard to push it to the back of your mind. i know, i am going thru this right now. we are making slow progress but it is working. good luck either way....life is too short NOT to be happy.
2007-01-08 12:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing I would do, would be to sit her dow alone and talk about everything. Tell her the pain she is causing you, ask why she is doing this. If you can salvage your relationship, it will have to be done without relations interfering in to your lives. If it is possible to move away then do so.
But, if she is not prepared to listen or talk then I do think that sadly,you have to move on and let her learn by her own mistakes, the mistake in losing you.
2007-01-08 12:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two married?
Forget her parents. They're wrong too. Not everything that's popular is right, and not everything that's right is popular.
Stand up for what's right. Take the moral high road and carry on. You alone know whether it would be better off with or without her.
2007-01-08 12:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while somebody has a fear of this they could desire to ask themselves 2 questions and answer them certainly: a million. What has the companion completed to make me experience this sort? 2. Why do i think i could desire to stay with a individual who makes me experience this sort. answer those certainly. the 1st one will enable you to manage no remember while you're projecting when you consider which you're no longer completely in it or if there's a actual subject with your companion in the back of the sentiments. the 2d provide you a gamble to realize that no person merits to be put in a place of feeling this sort and which you have cost. the two way, confer with an interloper with regards to the priority. I say an interloper because of the fact chatting with somebody who's conscious the placement could have preconceived notions one way or the different.
2016-11-27 21:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is one of the greatest deciding factor in bonding relations. Your wife was with her parents and her friends for a longer duration. Naturally she has more inclination towards them than you and your parents. Give her ample opportunity to prove herself. Gradually, she will become more faithful to you.
2007-01-08 21:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by yash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her parents agree with her and her choices, they don't see it as wrong, odviously they don't like u very much. if your partner is listening and taking the advice of everyone else, than she is not going to be open to anything u have to say with everyone against u, personally u need to get out of this, u can't win, and best to cut ties, and distance yourself and move on with life. good luck
2007-01-08 12:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It don't matter what anyone else thinks or says you now how to deal with this LEAVE and don't look back life is to short and there are to many other people you can love and trust.
2007-01-08 12:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋