I do not want to lose her friendship but I also want to know if she feels the same about me as I do about her. What should I do?
2007-01-08 12:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by Sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just slowly make a relationship. become better friends with her. and when the time is right {and you will know when that is} just tell her how you feel. but don't like make this whole 10 minute speech about it. just say that you have liked her for a long time and then go on about how you do feel about her. and if she doesn't respond in the way you want her to, you can either keep her great friendship or move on.
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2007-01-08 12:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kaytaykay14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. You never know if you don't try!
Plus, friendship is the best place to start a relationship! My boyfriend is also one of my best friends! I don't think it could have worked so long if it was any other way. You probably won't lose her friendship anyway (unless she's mean). Most girls are a little flattered when guys ask them out, even if they don't like them the same way. And if she avoids you or anything (though it's doubtful) then just give her her space and after a while things will be back to normal.
I don't think you have to worry anyway :) go for it and best of luck!
2007-01-08 20:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well invite her to dinner or coffe and when your there. Let her know how you feel about her and tell her if she doesn't feel the same way you want to say friends. Maybe she is waiting for you to ask her and can't find a way to let you know. Just go for it and remember to say if your not interested in me this way can we keep been friends. And she will say she likes you or keep you as friends. Never heard someone losing a friendship because someone like them. SO go to it.
2007-01-08 20:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont f*@# it up!...jk... You would/will now if there is something more...you would feel the vibe from her. You have to be careful though because sometimes people mistake friendliness for other things...For now, just be nice, hang out in a cool way and maybe things will develop...Dont try to jump into something you're not sure about ...you might realize she was just being friendly...take it slow, give it time. I dont know if you two have luch together etc. but slowly and comfortable ease your way into hanging out more---like i said, things may develop.
2007-01-13 13:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Waiting to Scream* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you value your relationship with her. If you're willing to accept the consequences by being honest to her about your feelings, go for it. She may not feel the same way. Afterwards, will you still be able to be a "good" friend while watching her date other guys?
2007-01-08 20:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should talk to her and tell her what you are feeling at that moment when. don't think about it or what to say that is how people get messed up. Just say what your feeling let all of them out. if you guys are close friends and your relation ship is what i good and strong.she may feel the same way. she may not but she will not run away. follow your heart, let it guide you and you want go wrong.
2007-01-08 20:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by honey.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, if you feel strongly enough about it. She will probably be flattered, and if it doesnt work out, after time, im sure you'll be just as good friends as before you told her. Good Luck!
2007-01-14 21:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by mysterious girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try and see if she feels the same about you first give her little hints then if she doesn't get it then just come out and tell her how you
feel about her
2007-01-14 23:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by kizzykisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her straight up.she might feel the same way about u 2.
2007-01-08 20:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her how you feel, and ask her, if she says no, you guys should probably stay friends. It doesnt hurt to ask. Good luck!
2007-01-08 20:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋