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Question

i have asked a couple of questions regarding ways to get my period to come back because i have not had a real period in over a year and husband and i would like to try to conceive..i have been to the doctors they say everything is perfect, i have tried acupuncture and their herbs, i have tried vitex, ovulex, female toner ect and still nothing, no i have never been on birth control i have had previous miscarriages due to abuse not by hubby...I need something inexpensive. im sick of everybody telling me if u dont have the money to get the help how can i afford a baby, well thats not your business. i dont have insurance and it gets expensive with all the tests and i have had many test and have to take out the money for them and pay my bills ect, does not mean i cant take care of a kid so please do not reply with oh your young IM MARRIED or wait til your financially stable I AM. i dont want anyone under 21 trying to help me out...thanks

Answer 1

I understand the frustration as I've been TTC for over 2 years now. I'm surprised the doctors would tell you that everything is perfect. I don't know any way to get the period to come back other then seeing the doctor for a prescription or an injection that will make you start your period.

Answer 2

OK, i have been having problems trying to conceive too and i know it gets frustrating , some people on this site try to help others don't or don't understand
I don know where you live so i cant say where to go but I'm seeing a lady who does homoeopathy,natropathy and a herbalist and she is really good i only just started on the fertility treatment that only goes for 4 cycles with a 95% success for me when ivf is only 50% chances are less for blocked tubes .
its a process of getting rid of a big chunk of the chemicals in your body , then settling your hormones to a healthy level and then treating the condition you have which could be as simple as your body isn't healthy enough to carry a baby which is a bid thing i hope this helped and you can find a person like this to help , it will cost about $600 over all which is what I'm on so its expensive but cheaper then anything else considering nothing has worked and it makes so much sense, don't stress , good luck.

Answer 3

I hope you dont mind i am only 21 now. But i understand how you feel. I had my 1st son at 19. I am now almost 22 and am 16wks along( this time we tried it) with my first son we had been together 4 years never was on birht control never used protection and it took 4 years to get pregnant. It took almost 3 to get pregnant this time. We live paycheck to pay, and are unmarried becuase we cant afford it. Plus it actullay saves us money not being married. I could not afford any help with trying to concieve. And we also listened to everyone tell us oh your not ready for another one. Your to young, your not married so on on so fourth. I think that it is great that you want to have a child. If you think your ready then you probley are. I look at it this way if i would have waited till we were finically stable to have a child i dont think it would ever happen. Missed periods can come from stress, mal nutrition, amoung other things. I really hope that you can concive good luck and keep trying.

Answer 4

I think you should see another doctor. The Dr shouldn't be saying everything is perfect.... it isn't if you aren't having a period.

If your dr would prescribe clomid it's about 25$ a month.

Answer 5

How about calming down? That is a big part of it! Stress will cause everything that you are expierencing.