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I've been friends with this girl..lets girl her "Gorgeous", with Gorgeous for a about three or four months now. We're cool. I stayed at her house for some weeks. We get along amazingly ( even when we're picking at each other) anyway. So I, the great girl that I am, followed her drunken sex lips and have since been sort of dating her. anyway, she has a boyfriend they say they are poly, blah, blah, blah.
I'm just wondering...is being involved in this 'relationship' any kind of a good idea? I've been trying to maintain this whole...'yeah, we are intimate, and getting emotional, and REALLY love spending time together' but I always freak out over the fact that she has a boyfriend. I kind of see it as a double life. If she's with him how can she be SO into me? When she's not with me I wonder is she with him, what are they doing all that jazz, but at the same time, I know its not my place to wonder...... If any of you have similar experiences/situations PLEASE throw in your two cents.
2007-01-08 11:33:06 · 2 answers · asked by theycallmesigh 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
We used to call such a person a slut or a nympho, now days we simply have something to the tune of "experienced" or flexible.
What is your call for exclusivity? She says she has others and one of those others says she has all kinds of others (poly)--so you think you've got some exclusive claim? Guess again. Sorry.
2007-01-11 08:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Polyamourous or whatever: are you the spare tyre here? For the sake of your self-esteem, avoid getting so confused and possibly even rivalrous. Such people can't be possessed or held down to an exclusive relationship. Move on and live in peace.
2007-01-08 19:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by montrealissima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋