she and i had un protected sex but i pulled out long before i came. should i be worried about anything? her period is late by a day or two.
could she be pregnant? please tell me any information you know about this.
2007-01-08 11:13:29 · 23 answers · asked by L-meister 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First responder didn't answer your question. Shame on her.
First, any time you have sex, pregnancy is a risk.
Let me restate that so you understand: ANY TIME YOU HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX, PREGNANCY IS A RISK.
Before you actually orgasm, there is a fluid that often flows from your penis commonly referred to as "PREcum" this is seminal fluid for lubrication, but can also contain sperm. I've heard some say that the concentration of sperm in PREcum is higher than the regular ejaculation, but I've never heard that substantiated. What I can tell you is it's ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE to get a woman pregnant from PREcum.
Now, as to how worried to be. A day or two late is nothing. However, if it's a week or more late, then yes, she should be taking a pregnancy test to check it out. Even if that comes back negative, I'd take repeat tests for 2-3 weeks to be sure, particularly if her period still doesn't return.
In summary, yes you're at risk, yes she could be pregnant. A day or two late isn't something to be overly concerned about, but you need to monitor it closely day by day until A) You have confirmation she's pregnant or B) She gets her period.
Start using condoms or abstinence please. Babies having babies is NEVER a good thing.
Oh and to all of you readers who voted me down just because I wanted to take the time to give more than a one sentence answer, thanks.
2007-01-08 11:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by JSpielfogel 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
She could still become pregnant yes. As soon as you become erect, you'll notice the tiniest bit of semen on your tip. This is enough to get a girl pregnant.
A day or two isn't anything to worry about though, that's just natural fluctuation. I'd be getting a home test if she's more than say a week or so and her periods usually come like clockwork.
Use a condom in the future. (And I hope she's taking a contraceptive pill of some sort too...)
2007-01-08 19:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by purplebuggy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you did not actually ejaculate inside your girlfriend does not mean you practiced "safe sex". As I am sure you have noticed that small amount of discharge that leaks out when aroused... that has sperm in it!!!! If that sperm & her egg have a party you get pregnant. If she misses her period have her take a test or see the Dr. The only way to have NO chance of pregnancy is don't have sex! If you have sex then you need to be prepared for all the responsiblities that come with it weather it be changing diapers or choosing an adoption agency!
2007-01-08 23:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Boppysgirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is stressing about the possibility of being pregnant, that can cause her period to be a few days late.
You should never have unprotected sex. Pulling out is not a reliable method, as there is ''pre-***'' and that is released at arousal, and you do not feel it. Sometimes, it can contain sperm, and can cause pregnancy.
Give her a week, and then request for her to take a pregnancy test, if her period hasn't come.
2007-01-08 19:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stop having sex until you know what the risks are- don't you know that there are many people on this planet because 'He pulled out'.
It's possible that she's pregnant, have her take a test, but it's likely that she is late bcause you are both stressing about the possibility of a pregnancy. If nothing happens by next week, definitely get her to take a pregnancy test.
2007-01-08 19:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A womans period could be a day or 2 late, id wait a week then possibly have her take a preg test, then if shes not preg, wait a little longer for her period, or go to a doctor. But she could be preg but the only way to find out is to be tested.
2007-01-08 19:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If such a thing happened, then I suppose that she probably is. Don't be worried unless you're completely unprepared, though; sex does need some thought beforehand. Were you ready for parenthood? If not, then you should probably try getting used to the idea. However, yes, she should go and check if she's pregnant.
2007-01-08 19:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Martin the Feminine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she says she is 3 months pregnant and you have known her for a month, I would definitely worry. FYI, she can still get pregnant even if you pull if out before you have an orgasm, reason the semen (that is why your pants get wet when making out with the babes) that comes out before has some sperm in them not much. But all it takes is one.
2007-01-08 19:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Big C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be concerned. There is sperm in "pre-***" as well! She could get pregnant from that alone. The Pull-out method is not a good form of birth control it is a fifty fity chance. The only way to ensure non-pregnantcy these days is the a-word... ABSTINENCE!!
2007-01-08 19:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, when you are in the processes of intercorse you will "leak" fluids, mostly for lubrication. However, these fluids DO contain sperm. There is a distinct chance that she could be pregnant. Pulling out does not provide ANY protection against pregnancy.
2007-01-08 19:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Spindle 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋