Might be pregnant.
2007-01-08 11:12:04 · 28 answers · asked by Sammi 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Nope, when you are in love, you just know. My sister-in-law and her boyfriend were trying to get pregnant only a few months after they met and now, three years later, they have a beautiful two year old boy! I knew within weeks of meeting my husband that he was the one. So, anyhow, good luck to you and, if you are pregnant, congratulations!!
2007-01-08 11:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really... It is a short time, but when you know... you just know... My bf and I were together for 2 months when he proposed, and we got pregnant (we were trying) after only being together for 3 months.... We have now been married 3 years, we have a handsome 2 year old son and we are expecting another baby in June.... But don't think that it always works out, because sometimes it may not.... either way... I don't think it is weird, and if you are in love, then I guess it is ok, but I would definately discuss what you both will do if you do get pregnant... Do you really love each other.. Do you realize and are you ok with the changes a baby will bring you.. Will you be getting married.. do you have the financial support the baby need??? Do you get along great??? If you can answer those with a yes.... then go for it!!!
2007-01-08 11:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your shoes. When my baby's father and I started trying for a baby we've only been together for a few months too, so I can understand how you feel. However, based on MY experience... with all my heart I advise you to get to know each other better first... If anything should happen everybody will be hurt, but specially the baby. My baby's father left me for another woman when I was 4 months pregnant and I'll never regret having my son, but is not easy being alone...
I hope this helps and that you make the best decision for everyone...
2007-01-08 11:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by lilly_mom_pr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really not enough time! You really should be in some sort of commited relationship, preferrably marriage, to be "trying" to get pregnant. I was not married and was not actually trying yet I ended up preg. I always knew that if I were going to have kids I must be married. You are bound and committed to each other, chose to be together forever. If you are dating and trying to have a baby then you are debliberately "making" an unstable home for this baby. Very unfair to the baby.
2007-01-08 11:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!! A baby changes EVERYTHING!!! You should at least be with a guy for a year before even thinking about marriage or children. Your still in the "honeymoon" phase of dating. Its the phase where you still get butterflies and everyone is always so happy. After a year you can start to see ones habits, faults ect. Until after you experience this you won't really know if your truly compatible for the long term.
2007-01-08 11:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by me 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is a little wierd, don't worry though, I think happiness has nothing to do with how long you've known each other for. My aunt got pregnant within four months too and her and her hubby now have a ten year old and they're perfectly happy - good luck to you.
2007-01-08 11:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by floppity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be a little soon. Be sure you are ready for a baby before trying for one. Being so early in the relationship you will barely know one another and then you will be adding on another person to the family.
2007-01-08 11:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by dolly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's wierd that you're trying for a baby and you're not married. Now your boyfriend can just walk out on you and your child whenever he doesn't feel like dealing with the stress. Way to go.
2007-01-08 11:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Finesse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I married my boyfriend of 4 months and we're still together 4 years later, and have a 9 month old.
Never play by society's standards.
2007-01-08 11:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that this is not the smartest way to start a relationship. I just wish that when people wanted to have children they would have to buy a license first and also prove that they can afford to pay for the birth and can afford to raise a child.
2007-01-08 11:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋