Is my teen daughter pregnentcy?

Question

you see, my daughter got a boyfriend last year and a lot of times she says she is going over his house a lot. well lately i have been noticing she is throwing up a lot in the morning and now two months later she needs bigger pants, she goes to school with big baggy sweaters all the time and sweatpants or never zippers or buttons her pants, i have noticed. she is a big girl but she has been getting bigger and eating more. now one night she comes home sobbing and she called her friend telling her friend that her boyfriend dumped her for another girl and she said something like "he said he aint ready to be no father" and "he only used her to get some". get some what? please help i am not sure. my friend said she might be pregnet. ps. my friend is the motyher of her now ex-boyfriend.

Answer 1

She could be. Ask her or have her take a test. If she is she really needs your support. Good luck.. BTW.. get some is sex. Plain and simple.

Answer 2

You could ask your friend if she every thought that your daughter might be pregnant especially if she was spending most of her time over at there house. From what you said it sounds like she is! I would defiantly bring it up with her. Sooner better then later, because if she all ready needs bigger pants she should have all ready gone in for a check-up at the doctors! She might be scared to tell you like I think all teen girls that get pregnant are. And I'm sure she could really use your support especially since her boyfriend left her. Good luck I hope things go well!!

Answer 3

i'm not sure if you to are really close or not, but if you are try to talk to her. Don't go on and on about what a bad choice she made or how stupid she was for not being responsible. THAT IS THE LAST THING SHE WANTS TO HEAR IF SHE IS!!!! I got pregnant when I was 18 and my mom flipped out. I know what I had done was not the most responible thing but hearing my mother yell at me for it made me feel even worse. I was afraid to tell her anything! Try and understand her side of things even if you do not completely agree, sure tell her how you really feel but don't blow everything out of proportion, if you know what I mean. Support her, I bet you she is scared to death right now, with the father not wanting to be there for her. Help her through this. There is nothing you can do about it now. So try to deal with it and not pull her down anymore then she may be feeling right now as it is!!!

If she is not close to you, try to talk to her anyways. Or try to throw hints toward her that it is ok for her to come talk to you in important situations, let her know that you will be there for her no matter what. Give her some time. Let her build up enough courage to tell you if she is. She may be terrifed. If she doesn't tell you anything or begins to denie it, make her take a test. If she is you need to know, and she needs to get to a doctor as soon as possible!!!

Answer 4

Ah, yeah it does sound very much like she is (and I have a feeling you know!) don't push her though, she knows that she'll have to tell you sometime and she's probably waiting for the right moment. Just be totally chilled out, no matter how you are feeling imagine how she is! You didn't mention how old she was, because she probably needs her mother a lot right now. How do you feel about a baby, it could be quite nice, so let her know that you won't get really mad at her!
Good luck.

Answer 5

well, talk to your daughter (don't yell) go the the Dr. with her let them take the pg test then hear your options from the MD.if she is there are many of options if not put her on birth control asap then listen to counseling how to protect against decease's

one good thing is hes out of her life
hope she finds someone better
oh yes get new friends
go to meetings support groups
get a hobby

Answer 6

I think you should try comforting her in her time of need. Don't question her about the pregnancy until she feels ready to confide in you unless she takes too long to seek medical help. she already feels used and neglected and doesn't need you judging her or her actions right now. Just keep showing her that you are there for her. Who knows, she may not be pregnant and just started dressing differently when the relationship between her and her boyfriend first began to get rocky. Good luck and God be with the both of you, whatever the situation may be.

Answer 7

There seems to be a communication gap between you and your daughter. First of all invite your daughter to sit together and discuss the issue. Let her believe that you are there to support her. Help her in all the way possible to regain her self confidence.

Answer 8

You need to sit your daughter down and work out whatever communication problems you have been having. If your daughter is pregnant she needs your support. She obviously doesn't feel safe to come talk to you or she would have already. Please be the one to approach her. Perhaps go out and buy a test and maybe sit her down and ask her to take it. She may not even know if she's pregnant. If she is and doesnt start taking prenatal vitamines soon she's going to do damage to that unborn baby.

Answer 9

Well it sounds like she could be pregnant. I was scarred to death to tell my mom too. I was throwing up too and gaining weight before I even told my mom. I guess she "read between the lines" and figured it out. It was easier to tell my mom after she approached me .... I think b/c it wasn't such a shock to her b/c she already kind of knew.

Just remember to support her either way ... and keep in mind that she isn't the first to have this happen ... and she won't be the last.

Answer 10

This is a sticky situation... Have you asked your daughter if she is pregnant? Have you asked her boyfriend, have you asked her friends??? "Some" in reference to your question, used in that way usually mean "SEX". If you are truly concerned for your daughter now is the time to NOT be her friend.