should we judge a book by it's cover?

Question

some times i judge men becuz thier ugly but it seem like the fine men so way much more damage so how do i go about judging men

Answer 1

If we did, we'd missing a LOT of good books.

Answer 2

Well I have to say this is a good question.......... So I am going to say this.
My husband is 5foot4inches. An is 115lbs. Big differcne from my 5foot11 inches and overweight self. My husband to me is cute. Judging someone just because they are "ugly" to you doesnt' mean they are fine as hell to someoen else. You can't judge someone cause you NEVER know. Might have a good heart. As I have been told serval times......you have be absolutly FINE and have the UGLIEST personality. An you can be the ugliest and have FINEST personality. All depends on differnt people.

Answer 3

No, don't judge a book by its cover! That usually never works out for anyone. I always dated the "pretty boys" and the problem is, they KNEW that they were!

My soulmate and love of my life is by no means ugly but he isn't what society would call "drop dead gorgeous" either. But each and every day that I look at him, he becomes more and more handsome to me. That is because I am seeing him through loves eyes! I can see his heart and to me, it is the most beautiful thing on Earth!

You will miss out on a really great gift if you choose to only look at the outside of the package!

Answer 4

It has been said that to judge a book by it's cover only keeps you from enjoying what is written inside. You could be missing something pretty good by not reading the story.

Answer 5

take them for who they are and not what they are, every one is a little judgemental its just part of being human and is what keeps us from some hurtful situations so it is not a completely bad thing, if you don't want to judge people then get to know them a bit before making a decision on the type of person they are and remember that looks are nothing, we fall in love with a person for who they are we are not fashion accessories to make each other look good we are here to make each feel good

Answer 6

if you're looking at the outside you'll never find him. what looks good on the outside isn't always good on the inside. that's just like looking at an apple at first glance, it looks so good you want to eat it. when you bite into it it's rotten on the inside. it's because you didn't take the time to pick it up, look over it carefully and make a decision. not saying you can't have a preference but be logical about it. ever heard the saying... the ugliest man will make the best husband?

Answer 7

I made this mistake one time too many. I met this guy and he seemed really ugly and just dirty but when him and one of my friends started to date, i realized yeah he's ugly but he's not dirty nor is he creepy. He was a really cool guy. So now i just get to know people and actually talk to them before i judge them, i mean there'll always be ugly people but some of them are actually really great people!

Answer 8

Don't judge. Go by their personality. An unattractive man can get much more attractive if you get to know him and he's a wonderful person. I fell in love with a man who is not good looking by most women's standards but he turns me on like you wouldn't believe. I see what's in him and it makes me love him inside and out.

Answer 9

I'd get to know the person first. You might find them attracted over time, and the cute ones can be jerks, which make them ugly. Definitly try to get to know the pesron before u judge them. it don't matter what they look like, but how they treat you.

Answer 10

i judge a book by its cover
im not saying its the right thing to do, but i do it anyway...
the "ugly" men that you judge: get to know them as friends first, then judge

Answer 11

Most people do... even subconsciously. Just try and let them in close enough to show them what they're worth. Appearance may be the deciding factor in the end, but if you give them a shot, then who knows. You might meet a diamond in the rough.