i feel like i should but im not sure!
2007-01-08 11:00:24 · 17 answers · asked by karmin 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I read your other questions you took the day after pill 2 weeks ago and again 4 weeks ago No you shouldn't tell him.
2007-01-08 11:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by what gives 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, do it. Tell anybody you fancy. Why these things are so hush-hush mystifies me a bit; the idea of keeping it secret from somebody who was clearly quite involved at the start of what led to...well, you see what I mean. Very odd. Why _not_ tell him?
The reaction will be _very_ telling. If this is a boyfriend, it'll be a great litmus test for whether you should bail while you still can, or whether he'd be the sort of person you'd want to get you pregnant again.
All that said, if it was a one-night stand and you have to rifle through your pockets to find the matches from the bar with the mobile phone # scrawled on it -- nahh. But only if the situation's that bad.
2007-01-08 21:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for your loss! Having a miscarriage is hard to deal with especially on your own. I think that you should tell him! It will be good for you to have him to talk with and grieve with. Good luck!
2007-01-08 20:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by alaskagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? Involved in a long term relationship? If it's just a random guy, or some guy you were with but are no longer with then NO don't tell him. You'll just look like a drama queen and he'll run your name though the mud.
2007-01-08 19:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Gig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss.
Go by your instincts. Tell him if you feel like but dont if you dont want to.... take your time.. you can tell him later too.. you can tell someone else and get the needed support for now.
2007-01-08 19:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, you really don't have anything to loose and the extra support is very much needed in this time. I had one and my now husband wasn't really around and there for me like I wanted be at least he knew and could morn the way he needed too. sorry for your lost.
2007-01-08 19:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by kristin h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell him that you were pregnet,if so tell him because iam a dad myself and if my wife or girlfriend at the time did'nt then i would never be able to trust her or believe her again
2007-01-08 19:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by vinniemyvinn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is tell him im sure hes going to understand.
2007-01-08 19:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by Esmeralda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea tell him i think it will be important to any man and he could be your pillar of support in this difficult time good luck take care and remember it wasnt your fault.
2007-01-08 19:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by crooky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes!!! He is the baby's father.. he has a right to know... he has to deal with the loss too.
2007-01-08 19:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋