This is my sisters account but here it is i am 24 yrs old and have been married 4 yrs.The relationship is not stable we are off and on more off than on.We fight all the time and cant agree on anything least of all on how our daughter should be raised at this point.We needed a marriage therapist to help us decorate our old home!I was a model and he was a photographer a match made in hell!We seperated after i gave birth to my daughter when she was not quiet 1.She is know a little over 2 yrs old.I have been travel with her for work to just about every where even to south africa!Problem is hubby wants to visit her at my expense and schedule?
2007-01-08 10:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by Miranda W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband is an English citizen and i am an American citizen so it makes divorce triky.
2007-01-08 10:47:23 · update #1
If he wants to visit her, he can pay for it.
2007-01-08 10:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her can't find you as an unfit mother, there won't be much he can do. You have to travel for work, and you are taking care of your daughter in the process. Usually courts won't tell you that you can't go somewhere if it has to do with your livelyhood. Plus if he makes his own living well with his photos then why would a judge make you pay for it. You need to talk to your lawyer and see what they suggest before he files something. let them know what your dealing with. But I wouldn't worry to much as long as your a wonderful mom, which I'm sure you are. It's good he wants to see her, but most judges make the father pay for travel expenses or at min Half of the travel expenses. Good luck in it all!!!
2007-01-08 18:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by nalerij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Custody will always remain with the mother(unless negligence is proven). He cannot visit at your expence because it is his responsibility. You need to see a lawyer, and make sure he is paying for the upkeep of his daughter.
Good luck
2007-01-08 18:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by mookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your divorce attorney this question, as he can file the proper paperwork to show he has abandoned the child up until now and wants to use her as a pawn to keep your "marriage" intact.
2007-01-09 11:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be more than happy to answer your questions, the best way for me to help you on this matter is via messenger, if you would like me to help you I will be more than happy to do that, add me to your contacts on messenger or email me at arespuestas@yahoo.com
2007-01-08 18:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to court and have something in writing. Otherwise there are no guarantees.
2007-01-08 19:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋