I HAVE THIS HUGE PROBLEM WITH SOMEBODY WHO USeD TO BE MY FRIEND!!! PLEASE HELP!!!?
This girl used to be my friend till she started talking about me and i told her that i was not her friend any more. So now she keeps on insulting me to my face and always doing it around everybody so i will get mad.SHE MAKES ME SICK!!!
What are some tactics i can use to get her off my mind. Besides the tactic imagine that she does not exist because that does not work for me. What do I do!!!!!
2007-01-08 10:35:47 · 8 answers · asked by LUV-ME-OR-HATE-ME 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Whenever I'm upset, then I have a problem. It's called letting someone live rent free in your head.
2007-01-08 12:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by charlie at the lake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to know the facts? Are you sure she was talking about you? Maybe you just heard this from a rumor and assumed it was true. Second, you can't just up and say "We're not friends anymore;" explain that you heard that she was talking smack about you and she'll probably back off if it's true. Third, if it is true and she keeps on insulting you, just turn around and hit her. Seriously. It'll make her go away. And if you can't do that then just avoid the places where she is and make sure to tell your friends what she's doing.
2007-01-08 19:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem
I talked to the girl and told her we should just be cool and not fight nor get along... just coexist I suppose
you can atleast try that
otherwise
ignore her... it will drive her crazy and make her stop
think about it... if you say absolutely nothing then she won't have much to fight with
do not fight back
she sounds like a ***** and that could be a huge mistake
2007-01-08 18:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know but don't have the patience to do it. The answer is to figure out what she wants to gain and then stop giving her what she wants. Figure out what she would LEAST want to happen, if you feel venomous, and let her have that too.
(I'm feeling hormonal and hostile just hearing about it!!) Learn to stay cool and keep your head!! Things will work better for you.
2007-01-08 18:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to stop her from interacting with you so you can stop thinking about her and the situations she puts you in.
I wish a hippy approach was the answer but reality is that your gonna have to beat her ***, and if your in the right in this situation then you should have no problem in doing so.
2007-01-08 21:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by badseed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get more friends and get immerged in them, tell them about this problem and forget her, otherwise if you still like her explain to her how her mistakes hurt you and be her friend again, she is only trying to say she is sorry.
2007-01-08 18:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate people who do that they should be dumped in the sea or something. Just tell here she needs Jesus!
2007-01-08 18:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Keketso T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't know what u would do, but i would just ******* diss her and get back to her
2007-01-08 18:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by major 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋