So for the last year I have been in a should we get divorced or should we stay relationship with my now ex-husband. The relationship was not horrible we own a company together and were under continuous pressures with that and trying to raise a family. We sought counciling and made the decision to part. I feel its hard because we still really like and have love for each other we get along very well its just "too much" sometimes. Even though we rarely fought the tension just felt like to much to take especially for the kids. We still run our company together and get along great now. I have for the last three months been seeing someone who I really enjoy being with. Who I have actually grown to love. Today my ex-husband pulled me to the side and told me "heres the deal I love you and I want this to work" I felt extremely confused and I didn't know what to say so here I am not knowing what to do...
2007-01-08 10:35:20 · 3 answers · asked by none 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes we are divorced.
2007-01-08 10:54:04 · update #1
I don't have a clue, hon.... tough one.... Are you divorced? legally? or just separated. Because your question is a bit unclear.
Maybe the best thing to do is make a list of the reasons to return and reasons not to. Then on the other piece of paper, reasson to continue with this new guy, and reasons to break it off. Then see how it plays..... I'd be confused too, hon, and I'm pretty good at this stuff
2007-01-08 10:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there too. I know how difficult it is to love two people at the same time, but in different ways. Do you still love your ex? Is it strong enough to overcome the issues of your divorce? You have a history together. Your children too. Whats best for everyone? Is your new guy someone you can have a good future with?
Me... I chose my ex-husband. I loved him and had a history with him and was more compatable with him. Also, it was easier on my children.
Do what your heart feels strongly about. I did.
2007-01-08 18:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by kelly l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're confused doesn't bode well for you no matter what. I can hear hearts breaking all the way down here.
People get themselves into the darndest problems (shaking my head).
2007-01-08 18:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋