Ok, i'f i'm a fairly pretty girl, slender, 18 and have NEVER had a boyfriend, is that bad? I'm really asking this jokingly, but what do you all think?
2007-01-08 10:25:38 · 39 answers · asked by SilverIce 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Oh, by the way, I've never ever ever been asked out on a date and so, naturally, it's a little harmful to my feminine pride :) when everyone around me has gotten asked out. I guess i wonder if i'm just not the kind of person guys would want to date.
2007-01-08 10:30:03 · update #1
nope..you are fine.
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you will be happier in the future
2007-01-08 10:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girl.... Please don't rush them because once you do you can't get rid of them. And I'm not joking. You not a failure in any way. You are only 18 not 28.
I didn't have my first boyfriend until 19 almost 20. I just never found the right guy after 2 or 3 dates or phone conversations they just didn't hold my interest and the ones who did didn't care for me. There's someone out there for you. Smile and enjoy your sexy single days.
I had to come back and write some more...after i read you added comment...
Once you start thinking negatively about yourself others will think the same. The can pick up on that... you know if think you are not good enough neither will they. Maybe you should go get yourself a new haircut and pedicure and manicure.... hopefully you will feel alittle better about your self Remember whenever you step out of the house that is opportunity to meet someone and always smile/make eye contact.
2007-01-08 10:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by dani girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way - when I was in highschool I didn't have a boyfriend until my senior year (spring!) and even then we didn't go out very long. My first serious boyfriend was when I had already graduated from highschool. No one made me feel weird about it (although I remember wondering if I was a freak!) - I was just a person who didn't find the right match until later. And I'm glad I waited because to just date someone just so it looks good is a pretty empty experience that feels worse than just choosing to wait for someone really cool to come around. It'll happen for you. Probably everyone says that to you and you're not sure you believe them, but I promise it will happen. If you're a good person then it's almost impossible for it not to happen. Too many people will be drawn to you.
2007-01-08 10:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by TM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you thought you were a failure, this is the last place you would come to reinforce your bad self-image. Maybe you're shy. And you have no idea how attractive that can be to a man.
And do you really think men have changed so much, or become "aware", that they wouldn't relish finding a woman (18)
who hasn't been around the block a million times? You know it's all up to what you dress that up in too. Men fall in love with their eyes. Hello?? And women fall in love with their ears. Thus,
look cute (not hot) and stay sweet and don't believe some crum-bums bill of goods. Don't get talked in to anything fishy because you love the way he talks to you. You need to learn the difference between flattery and complements too. Oh, I could talk to you all day!! Stay Pretty @8=)
2007-01-08 10:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not a failiure!
if there is someone you like, try attracting their attention. not trying at all could be telling others you are not interested.
or, if you have a friend with many guy friends, ask if you can get a hook up. that usually works too.
and if your asking this question, you might have a low self esteem. just be more open to more people and maybe one day youll find your match!!!
2007-01-08 10:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Little Miss WONDERFUL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not bad. But maybe you should find someone soon. But 18 isn't really bad either.... some people never really find the one until they're 20 or 23.
2007-01-08 10:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Guys only complicate your youth. Have fun! Now a days it's not a rare thing not to have a boyfriend at 18. It just shows you are picky & you should be.
2007-01-08 10:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You're actually lucky, by your age alot of girls have already dated boys they wish they hadn't and made plenty of mistakes they'd like to forget ever happened! The fact that you haven't gone out with some random guy yet speaks very highly for you. It sounds to me like you're holding out for that special guy who's going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Good for you!!!
2007-01-08 10:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people haven't had boyfriends until like they were 19 or 20 or something. I would say it was ok. boys are UGH anyways! they are stupid! you dont need them! one day they say they love you and the next they are messing with another girl! grrr! haha! but there will be at least one guy that will be perfect for you... and he wont be UGH! (:
2007-01-08 10:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sendy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its probably better to start having a boy friend when you'r older becuase ppl are starting to have boyfriends when they are 12 or 13 and it's not really for the right reasons and when you're older you'd be more responsible
2007-01-08 10:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sushilove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on wether or not you have actively pursued finding a boyfriend. If you have... then the answer is yes. If you have not.... then the answer is: How can you fail at something have never given any effort towards?
2007-01-08 10:28:48 · answer #11 · answered by Smitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋