i went out to my car today with my 3yr old and only to put the key in and realize it already open...to find my son car seat trashed.....my car trashed empyt beer cans and *** buts in my car....my £200 stero gone and £100 sub box gone and £600 amp gone............why are people like this........its cruel..........
i called police who said they cant come do evidence search till tomorrow what is all this about..........
I feel so low i got man problems....someone hit the back of car....then someone robbed it.....i got a ugly boyfriend someone beat me up just before new year MISTAKEN identy....the man i love cant be with me cause of his mother!!!! he said she not happy with it all and she makes his life hard for being with me
WILL SOMEONE GIVE ME A SHOT GUN SO I CAN BE DONE WITH IT.................i dont literally mean that
can everyone cheer me up please as i feel like getting in bed and not getting out of it......well that how i been for a week now and today top it off
2007-01-08 09:49:01 · 19 answers · asked by MissTee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
please dont be negative to me as i really am down....there is alot more things that have happened since december the 1st one thing after to other but i would be going on and on..the man i love is the man i have a 6yr old son with my older son live with his grandmother...she dont want me no my son she is the one who beat me up i am not a bad person i work for social services a single mother to my 3yr old...i am quiet person who want a normal life...my 6yr old son dad said he cant be with me as i pressed charges against his mom 4 beating me up cause i took him a psp2 and trainers for xmas...it goes on...she had nothing to do with my car though that i am 100% sure of...why are people bullies...it really has me down...cant MR.Right come sweep me off my feet.....lol...there is literally so many things i havent done anything to bring it on myself...my 6yr old grandmother has residents order as i had him at 16 i was 2 young at the time...i am about to fight her in court so plse dont b neg
2007-01-08 09:59:45 · update #1
thank you for those who are trying to cheer me up..and those being negative GOSH you act like you dont have bad days.....My children have nothing to do with this i dont cry or act low in front of them and for a single mother i do pretty well and i study not a typical scrounge on benefits i am making something of myself i just wanted a couple of HUGS for support....GOSH....
2007-01-08 10:04:34 · update #2
Aw babe, now I'm starting to feel down!
Would you like me to dance a bum jig? It's a cheeky little dance i invented, guaranteed to bring a smile to any face.
Look at it this way, if you stop smiling, they've beaten you.
And I'll be damned if I stop smiling, how bout you?
2007-01-08 09:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would not be normal if all these negative events did not affect your current outlook on life. The people that trashed your car and beat you up do not know any better. You can actually feel pity for an individual that has so little respect for property or people because you know how their parents treated them and how they must feel about themselves. Men come and go in our lives and some are better than others. I am sure that he will make a decison one way or another at whatever it is will probably be for the best in the long run.
Why not go have a nice long hot bath. Grab a good book or put a movie on. Give yourself a couple of lazy nights to rest and get your groove back. You sound like a pretty courageous and strong lady so I imagine that you have probably faced similar difficult situations and got through them as well You obviously have some real positives in your life, such as your three year old. Hanging out with a small child can bring a smile to any Mum's face and I am sure your little one is no different. You have blessings and sometimes it is difficult to see through all the adversary to find them, but they are always there. Remember this too shall pass. I wish you well and hope life lookes a little brighter next week. God bless.
2007-01-08 18:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! that is alot. I just have to say I have 4 daughters and the last was born with Retts Syndrome. She cant ever talk walk or have the use of her hands. But everything in her mind is a normal child who is trapped in a body that she cant use. She wakes up happy and smileing. After being with her for 4 years now You seem to be thankful for alot. Just wanted you to know be thankful you can do many things in life. My Stacy cant. Hope this helps you.
Debbie Burdine
2007-01-08 17:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear your tale of woe! Unfortunately there are more and more of these cretins on the streets, these things go on everywhere. Not a lot you can do, I'm afraid. I have a cd player in my car which I can't take out when I leave the car, so it's only a matter of time. Sad world.
2007-01-08 17:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
low life people only want to mess with others BECAUSE their own lives are screwed up. That;s the way it has always worked-if someone else's life is in an upspin, then they have to lash out at someone else just to make themselves feel better. Crap happens everyday to someone-just be thankful that you are alive & healthy. God only puts on us what he knows we can withstand....it will get better. It may not seem like it now, but just wait & your rainbow will appear and make the skies clearer & brighter for your future. Don't give up---your turn to shine will come....hugs over & over again xxxx
2007-01-08 18:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Leigh Ann A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way, but you need to take the "victim" sticker off your back. It sounds like you are in a helpless/hopeless situation where you are continually reacting to events, when what you need to do is take a step back and figure out why bad things keep happening. Are you living in a high crime area? Try to find a place to live in a better area, if you can afford it. Is your boyfriend treating you badly? Stop putting up with poor treatment. You have a small child who is depending on you for life and instead of being a role model for him/her, you're ready to bail out.
If you have family nearby, can they help you out until you come up with a plan to improve your life? I hope you do. Good luck.
2007-01-08 17:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need to take a deep breathe and look at the good things in life.
You have a young son who loves you unconditionly.
As for the stereo, it is only a matierial possesion and can be replaced, a childs love cannot. Good luck in the future, you deserve it.
2007-01-08 18:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by JANNERS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up it WILL get better eventually!!!! There are bad people everywhere but remember there are also lots of good people too! Maybe you need to find a new boyfriend or like me get a cat and relax for a change! Good Luck whatever you choose to do.
2007-01-08 17:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by avillecatwoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What on earth can anyone say to cheer you up. Talking to someone helps and you are doing that right now. I thought I was having a run of bad luck but yours tops mine. Just bear in mind your family, how much your child loves you and that you have to be strong for him. Time will pass and it will get better. We are all thinking of you, be strong :D
2007-01-08 17:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mazzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!...you are going through a bad time...
Sorry to be negative but the man you want is controlled by his mother????
Are you sure he is the man you want?? Matbe you could do better with a man with a mind of his own.
I know this doesn't help hun...but really?
2007-01-08 17:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋