im 12 im pretty sure im pregnant because i have bad sid and back aches and headaches as well as diahrea everytime i eat icant go to sleep last night i stayed up intill 5 am in the morn and i keep going back and forth to the bathroom.when i was up last night i felt like bubly movement in my lower stomache.im also late 6 days for my period and had sex in the end of november but came on lightly in december. 1 day after sex my mom took me to the doc to get a test but it came back neg. and i had a second one after that the second day that came back neg.
im also expericing more then usual discharge and my pee has a weird oddor he did not use a condom.
and my stomach is starting to get a little big but not firm yet.
do u think im pregnant and how long does it take usually for your belly to get firm when pregnant!
2007-01-08 09:48:39 · 37 answers · asked by brooke101394 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
omg...Ur twelve and having sex??? I am 12 too and I only did it once gurl u need to be careful u could be prego but the baby's life is going to be horrible no offense to u..... Take the test one more time and talk to the kid u had sex with..... u can e-mail me no no no PLEASE e-mail me with the results I too think i am prego
~Haley~
2007-01-08 09:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 9⤋
hi well im 24 with a baby and im still not 100% sure how it all works. But im guessing that if you had sex in november, if you were pregnant, youd only be, well not even 2 months, so you def would not be showing yet and would no way be feeling anything moving yet.
I dont think if your were pregnent that it would show up on a test 1 or 2 days after you had sex, it normally has to be at least a few weeks.
I wouldnt like to say weather your were pregnant or not as im not a expert, maybe you should speak to a nurse at school, or a teacher, or even your mum. she must know your having sex in order to do what she did, you'll be surprised how understanding mums can be.
Thats the only advice i can give really, i hope it helps.
Oh and maybe next time, use a condom, you should enjoy you youth, it goes to fast as it is, dont shorten it more by getting pregnant so young, or even worse, without using protection could catch something nasty
good luck honey, hope all goes well xx
2007-01-08 09:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by TP 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's a possibility that you are. Even pregnancy tests done by your doctor will not be accurate only one day after you had sex. It can take a week or so for the fertilized ovum to travel to the uterus and implant. Your period could be late because you're freaking out about the possibility of being pregnant, too. The only way to know for sure is to take a home pregnancy test or have your doctor do more bloodwork to see. I think the "bubbly movement" you felt is more likely to have been gas due to the diarrhea, and you may just be sick, but you need to find out for sure. Get tested ASAP.
2007-01-08 10:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tora 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh hunnie what have you done? You are 12 years old, you most definatly shouldn't be having sex!!!!! Shouldn't even be THINKING about it yet my goodness! I'm going to take a shot in the dark and say yea you probably are pregnant and you have nobody but yourself and your partner to blame for that! How old is he? He should have known better than to not use a condom or even to have sex with a 12 year old! All of these answers might sound harsh, but they're all the truth and not half as harsh as what is going to be happening if you really ARE pregnant. You definatly need to go back to your doctor because it sounds like maybe those tests were done far to soon to be real acurate. Have blood work done to find out. If it turns out that you're not pregnant the fact that you're stressing yourself out so much about the possibility could be what is causing your irregular peiods and weight gain. I think you should still definatly see a doctor either way and find out what is wrong. And hunnie, good luck I guess. I hope you've learned something.
2007-01-08 10:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
i become an identical way for the duration of my first being pregnant; some thing meat and fried grossed me out completely! i got here upon that fish wasn't so unappetizing although, tuna and salmon fantastically. I basically made particular to get protein by way of dairy; plenty and a good number of bowls of cereal, and cheeses and eggs were large. do not project about attempting to get meat in, basically be particular you're ingesting healthful otherwise. I somewhat had any meat in any respect, and nonetheless my son weighed a healthful 8 pounds, 12 oz! Congratulations and good success!
2016-12-28 10:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by gabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point, if you are pregnant, the baby would not be big enough to make your belly "firm". You need to tell your mother about these symptoms that you are having, so she can take you to the doctor. It could be possible that you are pregnant.
edit: I do want to say that I am sorry that you are in this predicament. I can't help wondering"By WHOM are you worrying that you are pregnant?" I hope that your mom is helping you with the social aspect of this issue also. I hope you concentrate on school, studying, girlfriends, and being silly----you are too young to carry the yoke of womanhood yet. With sex, your body definitely changes (despite the obvious, pregnancy---you have to get checked for cervical cancer yearly), and you need to start going to the doctor more often. That is stuff I did not worry about until I got so much older.
Good luck.
2007-01-08 09:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by * 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Girl, i am 14, and two years ago i did not go around doing this kind of stuff!! Girls back then were still like eewww over the whole male anatomy thing. What the hell were you thinking???? Do you even have your hips yet? And go back to that doctor!! Even if you aren't pregnant, there is still something wrong with you. Do you even know what STDs are????
2007-01-09 19:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by navdeepkaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do such a thing, I don't know anyone in that kind of situation and I don't think I'd look up to them. Be careful and get a couple of tests done like once a week or something. Why? Why? Why?
2007-01-08 12:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by ♫♪music dreamer♪♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're only 12 years old, then all the symtoms you've just described could just be that your body is getting used to having a period. It takes some time for young girls who are going through puberty to figure out their "normal" monthly cycles.
If your doc says that your not pregnant, then chances are that you are not.
If you are, then goodluck with whatever you decide to do. If you're not, then try to learn from this scare, and refrain from having sex at such a young age.
Sex is something that is meant for a more mature body, and more mature mind.
2007-01-08 09:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 9⤊ 1⤋
well...at least your mom knows about it...so you're not stressing about that.
you can't tell if you're pregnant the day after you have sex. the tests say that they find out a couple days before your missed period.
i'd say, get another pregnancy test, and if that comes back negative, then try testing for STDs.
2007-01-08 11:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by meeeesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i highly doubt you're pregnant if you got a pregnancy test at the doctors usually you can rely on them if he didnt use a condom go get checked for an STD because some of the things you're going through are symptoms of certain types of STDs sorry honey you're only 12 you shouldnt be having sex anyways but since you did i'm sorry if you are pregnant and i'm sorry if you have an STD i really am honey go get checked for an STD and see what it says if it's neg then you dont have one and try another pregnancy test in a few weeks
2007-01-08 10:00:58 · answer #11 · answered by Alicia A 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋