Should I send the gifts I bought even though we're not talking anymore?

Question

I met this young girl while we were both friends. We considered each other belly buddies and went through our final months together on a daily basis talking online, etc. We both had our children 5 months ago, and continued talking, even though things got hectic. We would send each other gifts and such in the mail for each other's kids. We've since gotten into it because she moved back to her hometown and now lives closer to her "real best friend" and started to come up with reasons here and there why she's not around anymore to talk. She's said she's annoyed with her best friend there and wishes we could talk more, but it's been so busy with the holidays and her bestfriend over her house all the time. She's very spoiled and gets what she wants from her family and from me as well, but I'm like to give to my friends anyway. For the holidays I bought her a bjorn and some other things she wanted, but not sure if I should even bother mailing them to her as she'd been treating me like crap.

We've also stopped talking all together. She acted as if she hasn't been giving me excuses the last time we talked, even though I've always been available on my end (especially since we were such good friends). She's younger than I am, and I really feel caught in a stupid triangle of highschool best friend syndrome... but what the hell am i going to do with these gifts if I don't send them? Also, her best friend had contacted me to be "friends" before we got into it and I didn't feel comfortable talking to her either.

Answer 1

i think u answered ur own question sweetie.
she's not your friend, she's just some spoiled miss who used u 4 a while and now she doesn't need u.
use the stuff yourself or take it back, but i wouldn't worry aout this "spoiled child"

Answer 2

I don't think there's a problem with sending the gifts. If she's your friend then she's your friend, acceptance is the key. You have to accept her wishes as a person because, you would want the same, right? Her friend is trying to reach out to you and try to ease the tension between you two so all three of you can get along with each other. Just try to be receptive to the other friend as if she were a mediator for you two. I believe it will all blow over so, send the gifts and wait and see what happens. Good luck.

Answer 3

Wow. How unappreciative. when you consider that she's so extreme approximately no longer dropping funds, how approximately you do no longer purchase her such effective stuff? She does not savour it, and she or he considers you dropping funds. i think of she's exceedingly frightened over you entering right into a habit to waste funds, when you consider that maybe she has that habit of spending funds on issues she does not want, when you consider that she is going to Macy's fairly much each and every week. maybe merely giving her a decision on her birthday may be effective, or provide her something you're useful she needs (like the fragrance you knew she needed). My mom (she's Asian) mentioned that she does not want any flora or presents for her birthday. All she needs sooner or later as quickly as I go away house is a decision and maybe a dinner at a eating place, even nevertheless she would possibly not at all criticize a latest like your mom does. do no longer think of too plenty on it. :)

Answer 4

I never give a gift and expect anything in return...I also do not send gifts to people I do not like either!

Answer 5

its up to you if shes not talking to u then i wouldn't send them unless she already sent your kid something, then u should send her the gifts...

Answer 6

be the better person and i would send the gift.