Would you get a divorce??

Question

What would make you get a divorce?

Answer 1

Something that crossed my personal boundaries and made me feel bad about myself on a regular basis while my spouse denied my feelings and didn't take any responsibility for the situation.
I think that feeling bad about yourself is easy enough without the person that is supposed to love you helping you to feel it even more. We all have to take responsibility for our emotional states, however, we trust our spouse to love and cherish us enough to lift us up, not stomp us down.

Answer 2

i did get a divorce, and i just turned 27 in September. i met him when i was 15, first, serious bf. married him at 19, then divorced him at 26. He was an alcoholic, mentally and verbally abusive, and just a plain jerk. He made a lot of money, but would get mad if i bought a gallon of milk. told me i can have a say so in money, when i make as much as him. plush my mom and sis are my bff, and he was always talking about them. i finally realized there is more to this world than him, and i didn't need him. i grew some balls, and walked out the door, never turning back. true, i am pretty poor now, live with my new bf parents and just had a son in august, but i have never been more sure of a decision.

Answer 3

My first husband went through mid life crisis and left me to chase younger skirts. He didn't want a divorce, but refused to come home either, so I did get a divorce, so I could move on.
My second ex husband got abusive, so I left him, and got a divorce. I don't have time to put up with that either.
Those are the two reasons I would get a divorce. If you cheat or threaten to hit me (my second didn't hit me but told me how lucky I was that the hole in my wall wasn't in me) you can kiss marriage goodbye. Anything else can be worked out.

Answer 4

I did get a divorce - my first time around.
My husband didn't sleep with me, have sex with me, care where I was or what I did. He jsut didn't care about anything but the dual income. We divorced, and my best friend moved in after I moved out. Guess that explained a lot for me. I wouldn't change it at all. He obviously didn't want me forever, as he said at our wedding. It hurt badly, and you have seen from my other posts...it almost killed me. Literally. But I am remarried to the best guy in the world, and happy again.

Answer 5

What would make me get a divorce? Being married to a dumb jerk of a husband like mine!! I am in the process!

Answer 6

IT DEPENDS; WHY?
BECAUSE FOR GOD THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS DIVORCE. HIS WORD SAYS THAT WHAT GOD UNITE TOGETHER, NO MAN WILL SEPARATE. NOW, IF YOU HAVE AN ABUSIVE HUSBAND THAT BEAT YOU UP AND IS UNFAITHFUL (ADULTERY) THAT'S THE ONLY WAY GOD APPROVE YOU A DIVORCE.THE BIBLE WILL TELL YOU MORE.LOOK IN MATHEW 19:1-9, LUKE 16:18, 1 CORINTHIANS 7:1-11, 1PETER 3:1-7. WEATHER YOU BELIEVE OR NOT THAT'S THE WAY IT IS. DIVORCE? NO,NO
NOT IN MY BOOK. IF YOU HAVE DOUGH'S LOOK FOR A BIBLE AND READ THESE VERSES, IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT DENOMINATION YOU ARE,("RELIGION") BUT YOU'LL SEE THAT I'M NOT LYING, CAUSE THERE'S ONLY ONE GOD,HIS LAWS AND 10 COMMANDMENT. GOD BLESS

Answer 7

Continued physical, emotional, or psychological abuse of me or our children. A spouse with major, uncontrolled substance abuse problems, especially if such problems endangered our children. A spouse with serious sexual issues - whether those issues were ones of long-term disinterest or disinclination, or were destructive and damaging, such as pedophilia or uncontrolled and unwelcome sadism. An irreparable loss of trust. An irreparable loss of respect. An absolute unwillingness to recognize and acknowledge my reasonable, but non-negotiable, needs, such as a need for security, safety, commitment, and reciprocity. An unwillingness to try to meet those needs. Absolute emotional shutdown and a refusal to communicate.

Answer 8

well if he cheated once probably not but if he did it all the time then yes or if things changed between the two of us i wouldnt want to get a divorce if i could help it though

Answer 9

A cheater or drugs or abuse. I have done the drugs thing and after almost 6 years left and I did the abuse thing once and after 4 months I left that marriage. Hope I never have to deal with a cheater!

Answer 10

I was 18, stupid and immature. Realized marrying a 33 year old looser was the stupidest thing I had ever done. Left him 9 months later.