So I was friends with this girl for 6 years. All she's ever been interested in is herself. She thinks that everyone should kiss her *** and do whatever she wants. Whenever I've had problems with anything, she says I'm just using them to get attention (even if they're serious and I could have used support).
Recently, I called her to see how she was doing and she was just being quiet like nothing was wrong and basically making me dig for information. I asked her if she was okay, and she said yeah.
Later, I got a nasty email from her telling me that her boyfriend broke up with her and that her cousin had died from ODing on drugs. She tried to make me look like the bad guy though. Was I right to point out what she did and tell her how I felt about it? She freaked out and called me a ***** and pointed out that no one can stand me (even though I'm friends with anyone I meet).
What should I do? We haven't talked since our last fight, but should I even try to stay friends with her?
2007-01-08 09:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by john_deeregirl07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No you should not try to still be friends with her. I had a friend like that and I finally saw her for what she was. There are better people out there to share friendships with. She will never be anything but trouble for anyone who gets close to her.
2007-01-08 10:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say let her go. As much as it might hurt, you have let someone like that go. It's only going to get worse. I was in the same situation, maybe a little different but I realized I didn't need someone who wasn't going to support me when I had a problem and that it's just negative energy that will bring you down in the long run. There is another person out there who would be your friend for life. But, this friend season has come to an end. Let her go! and Good luck to ya!
2007-01-08 13:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sounds to me such as you phrased it completely on your question. Say each and every thing which you're feeling. you're an user-friendly and articulate individual and that i've got not at all everyday you place somebody down for no reason. i do no longer comprehend why she'd take this so in my view. it rather is not comparable to your purely clarification for going surfing replaced into to speak to her. She desires to comprehend which you have a existence outdoors of your friendship too. i will see why all of what I merely wrote might offend somebody who replaced into unwilling to make certain yet another guy or woman's side of issues. And why you used the word, "swallow your delight." This feels like a stressful subject because of the fact even nevertheless you particularly did no longer do something incorrect, her thoughts have been harm. have faith me, i've got got here across myself on the two facets of this occasion better than as quickly as. and that i've got swallowed my delight many situations. My terrific suggestion is which you ask for forgiveness for hurting or offending her, yet do no longer enable her wallow in it or throw it back on your face time after time. you are able to desire to no longer could desire to ask for forgiveness for the comparable ingredient many times returned, exceedingly in case you particularly did no longer do something incorrect.
2016-11-27 20:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by nancey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's gonna act like it's your fault then there's no point let her fix the friendship if she wants it fixed it sounds like she's too caught up in herself to really be friends with anyone so don't let it bother you me and my ex best friend went through this and she ended up saying sorry but i didn't forgive her leave it up to her to tell you if she wants to be your friend until then just leave her alone if she says hi say hi and if not oh well right? this is a hard decision and i know it's not easy to just let it go but sometimes you have to and that way you'll find out if the friendship is important to her also.
2007-01-08 09:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Alicia A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a psycho. If you called her and she did not want to talk about what was wrong, then it is not your problem. I wouldn't bother staying friends with her if this is how she treats you.
2007-01-08 09:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me she doesn't sound like a very good friend to me. she wasn't there when you needed here the most. so i wouldn't try to save your friendship with here. what she did was not a very good thing. so i wouldn't be friends with her.
2007-01-08 09:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋