when i was walking out to my car i saw my bf just sitting in his car.i went over to see what was wrong.he had a very intense look on his face and was on his cell.as soon as i opened my mouth to say hi he shot me a angry look and waved his hands at me to keep quiet.after a few mins of him listening + saying ok,yep,no in a very monotone voice to the person on the phone he hung up.without saying a word to me he left his car and walked to his appt.i kep asking who was that and he just ignored me.when we got to his door he would not let me in and got very angry with me and said leave me alone i don't want to talk about it.later i called him + he seemed calmed down but was vague about what happened.it seems "sue" told him to come get his stuff(keys,clothes)that she still had but not to come when she was home,she would leave his stuff in a bag on the steps.why did my bf react to me in a argry way?why after 10 mons does she still have his stuff?as far as i know he never told her he was datting me,maybe she found out and got pissed thinking they would get back together.i worry about this becuase my bf left his last wife for this old gf maybe shes at her old tricks again.what do you guys think?
2007-01-08 09:37:36 · 5 answers · asked by kathygrams0987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can sit and obsess about, "what ifs" for hours, and all this is going to make you is unhappy and neurotic. A girl telling a man to come and get his things is not going to be very pleasant about it, and this would certainly account for his being angry. It probably had nothing to do with you just some unfinished baggage he is carrying regarding his break up with her. You obviously have a relationship with this man so if you don't want to screw it up then let this all go. Ignore it and get on with the present since there is nothing that you can do about the past and a paranoid girlfriend is the last thing anyone wants.
2007-01-08 09:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both believe him, or you do not! Sounds adore it used to be problematic for him to receive the finality of the drawback along with his "former" female friend, and his response used to be totally usual! If you are particularly involved, take a seat down and speak to him approximately it, however supply him a couple of days to procedure what occurred. Good success!
2016-09-03 18:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such things as a man being just friends with a woman, especially a woman he's been with. Lay down the law, he has t cut her ff cold turkey. Any hesitation on his part and its tie time to cut your losses and move on ASAP.
2007-01-08 09:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same thing....but not as bad..... Honestly i think you should ditch him if he is known for doing crap like that he wont stop, you can change someone, but on the other hand ask him about it make it clear that you will not put up with it
2007-01-08 16:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by tootles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you don't trust him, stop seeing him. Simple as that. She's not up to her old tricks- HE is. He's the one who dumped his wife for her!
2007-01-08 09:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋