She's nearly a year younger than me, she acts really immature yet all the guys seem to always want her. Like, some are DESPERATE to go out with her. But then her relationships are really short and she flirts with every guy and goes out with one every second. And she's blonde, and really skinny. She even flirts with guys i like. And....even if i act more mature and sophisticated and experienced...she still manages to get the guys. I just want a long and romantic and meaninful relationship and that's what i'm waiting for, but along the way she's always bragging about who likes her and who's asked her out etc....
2007-01-08 09:22:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's nearly a year younger than me, she acts really immature yet all the guys seem to always want her. Like, some are DESPERATE to go out with her. But then her relationships are really short and she flirts with every guy and goes out with one every second. And she's blonde, and really skinny. She even flirts with guys i like. And....even if i act more mature and sophisticated and experienced...she still manages to get the guys. I just want a long and romantic and meaninful relationship and that's what i'm waiting for, but along the way she's always bragging about who likes her and who's asked her out etc....
*EDIT* oh, and for the people who say 'she's hotter' it's got nothing to do with looks, i've been complimented on that subject and that's not the problem. Thank you all for the advice, it really, really helped!
2007-01-08 09:33:43 · update #1
You are fortunate that you don't have her problem
2007-01-08 09:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. "her relationships are really short"... So, sure she's cute and all, but she can't make anything last, even though she has all the chances in the world at it. You have to learn that beauty isn't about just the physical. And neither is attraction. She may seem flirty and fun and interesting, but she can't keep a man. Just do what you feel comfortable with, (and it is always a good idea to be healthy and take care of your face and body as well as you can) and you'll find someone wonderful, that you can be with for a long time. Let her have the revolving door relationships. Cause when you meet the right guy, I guarantee, she'll be envying you.
2007-01-08 17:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to shut up, its annoying.
The reason why shes getting all the guys has very much to do with the type of relationship you want.
In saying that, the reason you're not getting with these guys is exactly because they're not interested in that type of relationship. If they're all headed for the skinny blond and leaving a week later then don't worry about them.
They're not what you're looking for.
2007-01-08 17:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer seems repetitive today all men are boys and all boys are men most of them before the age of 35 want it all the "wife" the girlfirend the mistress she is acting like one of them by moving through it all not showing emotion not trying. Meet some new people and stop looking and Mr. pretty alright (none of them are ever perfect even if you have a good one) will be there.!
2007-01-08 17:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense to your friend but the guys probably see her as a ditsy, easy blonde. They are not looking to get into a long relationship with her and that's why they are always so short.
2007-01-08 17:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by Britt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl,..i know what you're sayin!!! i have a skinny blonde friend who all the guys like..she gets bad grades, ..very ditzy, yet they all want her!!! she's a cheerleader and whatnot,..she acts so weird around guys ,..alot different than just around me..BE YOURSELF..DONT WORRY ABOUT IT!!!!!!! some day.,, the guys will see that as they mature..(if u can call it that..lol) they will want a more intelligent girl..stay like you are! you deserve a great guy..hes out there for you somewhere! your friend will soon realize that in time,..all the guys will want a girl JUST LIKE YOU!!!!
hope i helped
~hollieann
2007-01-08 17:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ones looking at her are looking for one of the get what you can and leave relationships that she is acting like she may have. You must not put off that same I would like to go to bed with you body langauge.
2007-01-08 17:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about what she's doing. the way she sounds she's going to end up with more broken hearts than anything else. the right guy for you will come along. just wait for him. don't be so desprate to have a boyfriend that you think you always have to have one. figure out who YOU are first, and then worry about guys.
2007-01-08 17:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She clearly has no morals and doesnt care about what other people think of her. If she did her relationships might last longer and you wouldnt having to be classing her as a slut which she sounds like she is. People like her get on my nerves and so do boys who like girls like her. Frankly the boys who she attracts sound like skeezes and shes welcome to them. If boys judge girls on looks and easyness and stuff they clearly arent worth your time. You sound like a great girl who has got loads of amazing things going for you. Im sure it wont be long until a special guy sees that. Keep hoping hun
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2007-01-09 12:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by EmmiStar.X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she attracts the guys you wouldn't want anyway. Just because she goes thru guys like water doesn't make her way better. Just be patient, a good one will come along for you.
2007-01-08 17:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Kier22_2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
iv meet many a girls like you have mentioned and the reason why guys are always attracted by them is because they seam easy. and wouldn't need to much convincing to bed.
but a guarantee she only attracts a certain type of man, and they do tend to be n0b heads.
so just be thankful that any guy that's into you isn't just after your looks and body.
2007-01-08 17:35:59 · answer #11 · answered by spazticus_autisticus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋