My friend takes pictures of herself in her underwear and bras or her bikinis and used to post them on myspace b4 she got in trouble by her parents. She took these pictures of her in her bikini sitting in her jacuzzi and it immediately got her friends parents calling her a **** and her older brothers friends were telling her brother about how good she looked and she had to delete her page. She always was covered [ just not by a lot ] she has a photo album online that is kept private but she still has the pictures. She told me she used to send them to her boyfriend thru aim. What do I tell her? Should I encourage her to delete these pictures? She might even have some without clothes on for all i know! Im serious about this. I need serious answers/advice. Please help! Why do you think she takes pictures like that? She told me she does it bc no one gives her any attention bc no one realizes how sexy her body is? i dont know,.
2007-01-08 08:58:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is the truth what she says to you. Listen very well to what she says. She is saying no one gives her attention. Is she lonely at home. Is her family not so attentive. Is she in a loving environment. Sounds like she yelling out for help. I know I was there when I was a teenager. I felt no one loved me so I went out looking for it in all the wrong places. I was a very nice looking girl, but very insecure, no one liked me no one loved me I had no one, was always on my thoughts. Go in a round about way to talk to her parents, counselors at school for suggestions. Good luck
2007-01-08 09:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by LJD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with her. Some people are not shy about their bodies and enjoy showing them. That's why nudist colonies are so popular. Go to Europe and you will see people on the beach wearing less clothing than your friend's pictures. The nude is a valid and beautiful artistic form; would you ask Michelangelo to put some clothes on David? Talk about repression!
The fact that she is getting attention from all this just encourages your friend to do more. Maybe it IS the only way to get attention from her parents. Clearly she gets a reaction from everyone she knows and she's no doubt the type of person who revels in the spotlight. There is nothing wrong with that. The more attention she gets, the more she will do it.
2007-01-08 09:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Gallifrey's Gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats probably the truth, that she feels that she isnt getting attention that she wants, she could be going throuh family problems and don't know how to express herself(in a postive way) let her know that there are crazy people on line and what if she decides to apply for a job and they look online and find those picutres. Let you friend know that she really needs to think about the consequences of her behaivor because one day this may all come back in bit her in the butt!
2007-01-08 09:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong if it infringes on a person's natural rights. All people are entitled to things such as life, liberty, and prosperity. So if you kill a person, you take away their life. If you put them through dominance and abuse without their consent, you take away their liberty. If you steal their property or money, you are affecting their prosperity. Something is right if it preserves those natural rights and promotes them for others. If you save someone, work to give people suffrage, or give to charity, you are doing the right thing. However, the line between right and wrong often becomes blurred. For instance, suppose you kill a murderer who broke into your home to save your own family. In this example, we can dissect your actions and judge them individually to be either right or wrong. Killing the man was wrong, but protecting your family and property was right. In this case, the number of right actions and the amount of good that was done is greater than the evil, so you would be right in this situation.
2016-05-23 13:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants the attention from her bf and other boys. I think you should help her encourage her to delete the pictures, because, I wouldn't like being called a ***** by my friends family because that influences them to not let you hang out with her anymore. Or it could. She really shouldn't get mad at you for it. If she does, she's not the friend you think she is. Best wishes :)
2007-01-08 09:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many girls act out this way. Some don't feel they get enough attention and others don't know how to display their sexuality without being inappropriate. I would just tell her you are worried about the what she is doing. Ultimately it is up to her to stop her behavior. Try not to take it so badly. You are a good friend.
2007-01-08 09:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by tking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and explan to your friend that if she wants attention, there are other ways then to do that. For all you know, in a cupple years she maybe a sult because she wants "attention"
2007-01-08 09:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a boyfriend problem all the way--he's obviously not satisfying her needs so she seeks out attention from anyone else who will.
2007-01-08 09:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is staving for attention but she is going about it the wrong way to get. maybe she should take up a hobbie are join a club and meet people.
2007-01-08 09:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by stanley w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is starving for attention. But that is negative attention, not positive.
She definately needs to delete them though.
2007-01-08 09:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋