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Question

i've finished my period 8 days ago and me and my bf have never had sex and always stayed fully clothed. He's never touched my genitials and i haven't touched his and he hasn't fully ejaculated but we do movements with clothes on. I also have a dodgie digestive system since and it takes me up to 2 - 3 weeks 4 me to get rid of waste. Lately it's been hurting above my breasts, i have received a few abdominal pains sometimes but my genitials feel sore and itchie and today i got like a red blood mark inside my underwear today though and it's kind of scaring me does anyone know what that could be?

Answer 1

It is hard to know what this is! It may be best to see your doctor. You are not pregnant tho

Answer 2

I am an alternative medicinal therapist and an ex nurse and I do not like the fact that your bowels open every 3 to 4 weeks or perhaps you mean days. It sounds like you have IBS. The pain you have is caused by wind/gas accumulating in your intestines and your colon is clogged. This results in the toxic waste being absorbed back into your blood stream and this causes all kinds of problems. It will also affect your kidneys and bladder and in turn your reproductive and genital area. You MUST see your doctor or you can take LEPICOL, you mix this with water or orange juice twice a day for a week and reduced to once a day for a few months. It contain a bacteria that helps to break down waste matter and you should also drink actimel or yakult every morning. As for the blood spot it could be the start of a vaginal infection (with or with sex) it could have come from your anal area due to piles which are caused by constipation, or it could have come from your bladder after you have urinated. If what i have mentioned doesn't work after a week, please see a doctor. You may have a serious problem with your bowels. Hows your diet, plenty of vegetables and fruit and please please drink at least 2 litres of water a day, this is one of the main causes of digestive problems. If you have sore lips then you are not getting enough water. The health shop sells all of the above

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Answer 3

You are not pregnant.
You either have to have intercourse or get sperm on your genitals to get pregnant.

I think you may have irritable bowel syndrome which would link in with your sluggish digestive system. Get a doc to confirm, then you can get some treatment for it.

You may also have thrush, which is very common in women and again is nothing to do with having sex. This would link in with you feeling sore and itchy. An over the counter anti-fungal cream or tablet will clear that up within a couple of days. Try something like canestan or diflucan. Avoid perfumed products and soap down-below, as these can cause thrush.

Stop worrying about the symptoms and get yourself seen by a GP so you can get treated and get on with your life.

Good luck.

Answer 4

If your fully-clothed and your a virgin you have nothing to worry about.

However, if your are not a virgin, and you are both in your underwear and he ejaculates (since you mentioned he never fully ejaculates = meaning that he does ejaculate to some degree) then some transfer of semen is possible. All it takes is one time.

Before a man EVEN feels that he is about to "release" there's a thing called "pre-ejaculation" one drop of semen can contain hundreds of sperm.

Also, if your genitals are itching, the transfer of STD's is possible through underwear if you are bumping and grinding and he ejaculates.

You sound pretty young, and not ready for pregnancy so why are you letting him get that far with you? Respect your body and your virtue. Don't do anything you will regret later in life.

Do you have two or more of the following pregnancy symptoms.
Symtoms of pregnancy: (not in any particular order)

missed cycle (some women continue to have spotting)
nausea (any time of day, not just morning sickness)
dizziness
fatigue
increased vaginal discharge (leukorrhea)
constant urination (especially getting up alot at night)
tender breasts
darkened aereolas
food cravings (food, & non-food items such as dirt or styro-foam)
food aversions
unability to lay on tummy due to soreness of the abdomen
cramping in the abdominal area
swelling (water retention)
heigtened sense of smell
linea negra (a line that appears down the middle of your abdomen from right beneath your breasts to your pelvis, it gets darkers as the hormones increase in your body)

Hope this helps!

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I don't worry about your being pregnant (I'm sure, for what you say, that you are not) but I would visit the doctor both because of your lazy digestive system (3 or 4 weeks doesn't feel normal and that of course could be the cause of your abdominal pains) and your sore genitals. It could be some infection with fungus.

Answer 7

You aren't pregnant if you have never had sexual intercourse with your boyfriend however I think a trip to the GP would be a good idea. If this is your first sexual activity it could all be in your mind. You could be worried about what you are doing. You seem quite young. Relax and go to the doctor and get yourself some contraception

Answer 8

It does not sound as once you're pregnant, yet i might see a physician, rather with regards to the soreness above your breasts, the soreness and the dodgey digestive issues. It seems such as you have gotten an infection of a few variety, yet recognizing and extraordinary classes are completely everyday once you're youthful, so seeing a physician is probable your terrific direction to getting issues back to everyday. BTW....Congrats on abstaining !! i'm happy with you !

Answer 9

The description you give doesn't sound like anything to do with pregnancy.
I think a trip to your G.P would be a good idea.

Answer 10

You cannot get pregnant if you have not had intercourse or if your boyfriend has not ejaculated near your vagina, so don't worry. The pain in your breasts may just be that you are developing and growing. I would suggest you see your GP, I know it's embarrassing but at least you will be put at ease and not worry.

Answer 11

If you haven't had sex with him(intercourse) then you aren't pregnant by him from what you describe. Eat more fiber and go to the bathroom more often and call a doctor while your sitting on the toilet waiting.