I have an issue, there is a guy in my class( Billy) he likes to grab my butt. It really bugs me and I have my guy friends who are friends with him who are telling me that he said " Krissy and big boobies and i love grabbing her a**" I t is really embarassing to have your friends have to tell you! I need help what should I do, What should I say to him!?! HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-08 07:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by Krissy G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And a lot of people have been telling me to tell someone but I don't have the guts and when he does it he laughs and I hate it....Billy has punched me so I DO NOT have the guts to stand up for him and if he gets in trouble by the police, councelor, princilbe ecd. then afterwards he will beat the crap out of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-08 08:13:47 · update #1
There are a number of things you could do. when he tries to grab your *** again tell him next time you touch me I will kick you in the nuts and take action with the schooI and police, tell him that "i am simply not impressed by your behaviour, neither is anyone else and no matter what you think it's NOT cool to sexually assault girls- it's a crimiinal act" (now he's been warned and he knows that he can't continue his filthy behaviour, and by standing up to him he knows that he can't get away with it). Secondly I would get your friends to go up to him and tell him you think his behaviour is disgusting and that you are dead serious about taking further action. i think if you feel comfortable you should talk to your parents, then tell the school counsellor and express your concern with the counsellor that you think he will be physically abusive with you for taking further action, that way he/she can mention to the boy that there will be a police investigation if he doesn't stop sexualy assaulting you and if he touches or threatens you physically. That will scare him enough to stop his terrible behaviour, sometimes young boys try so many different thing to get a girls attention and he needs to know that this behaviour is not acceptable, unwelcome and you WILL NOT tolerate it any further! the people that I was always most scared of finding stuff out was my parents, so make sure the school lets them know what is going on trust me he will leave you alone!!
2007-01-08 09:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by mary d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called sexual harrassment. If you have a serious problem with it, the next time he's near you, tell him to stop grabbing your butt or you will tell it to someone that has authority to do something about it. In general, the cops, office, programs that will deal with him! If it's really really really bothering you, you need to get something done about it. LOOK HIM DEAD IN THE EYE AND YELL AT HIM...maybe loud enough so he will get embarrassed when other people look at him! =)
2007-01-08 16:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to not touch you again - it's sexual harrassment. Tell a teacher or a parent, and file a claim against him with local authorities. I know it seems extreme, but this boy needs to learn what's appropriate and what's not, and this is definitely not. If you allow him to treat you this way, what happens when he wants to take it a step further than just grabbing you? He needs a reality check, and you need to stand up for yourself.
2007-01-08 16:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by eurekablyth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he comes near you with any type of sexual harrasment at all, make a seen! look him in the eyes and say and a firm, steady voice, "Do not touch me, or even look at me ever again." Then contact an adult you trust, and get the pricipal and authorities involved. Any type of harrasment in these kind of situations are not apropriate in any way. And also may I add, if your "friends" are treatin you like that, what kind of friends are they any way? contact a trusted adult, and get help. God Bless you:)
2007-01-08 17:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by apples 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has no respect for you, and as long as you let him get away with it he will never respect you. As far as him hitting you, It sounds like if he is that stupid I wouldn't be suprised if he doesn't attempt to rape you. You need to nip this in the bud now and tell him to knock it off. Have your guy friends help you with this.
2007-01-08 16:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your school coinciler. Explain the problem to her and she will be able to think up some solutions. Also, next time Billy does this to you say,"stop!"
2007-01-08 16:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by fluffysheep12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight Dont touch what ya cant afford,if your guy friends were any type of friends to you they would be able to tell him you dont like it.Grab him in his crutch that hard and say leave my body alone.
2007-01-08 16:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by staffie lover from Aussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill tell u what to do! u tell him to shut up and kick him in the family jewels! also tell an adult u trust
2007-01-08 16:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by jldevin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st try to tell him to stop and if he countinues tell the principal or counslar...if it gets to serious tell the police they can write him for sexual harassment!
2007-01-08 16:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop why does he do that?? That is so stupid tell your teacher or something.
2007-01-08 17:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋