its hard for me to fathom the mind of someone that would do it
2007-01-08 07:49:41 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
YES and crazy
2007-01-08 07:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Wish 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stalkers are real.
It is hard for you to fathom such a mind, because it's not a correct mind. Stalkers generally have above average intelligence (IQ), despite this, their emotional quotient (EQ) is very low. They have poor self-esteem, no or few personal relationships and a mean streak that becomes violent when frustrated.
Stalkers also display an obsessive personality. They are not just interested in, but totally obsessed with the person they are pursuing. The stalker's every waking thought is focused on the victim. Stalkers refuse to believe that the victim is not interested in them, thus they fail to see their behavior as threatening, intimidating or even stalking.
Stalkers, furthermore, display sociopathic thinking in that they cannot learn from experience. Stalkers, like rapists, want absolute control over their victims. They don't regard what they're doing as a crime, or even wrong. To them it is true love, with the exception that the victim doesn't realize it yet. With enough persistence, stalkers believe they will eventually convince the victims of their mutual love.
2007-01-08 18:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by LUCKY3 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately Yes!
2007-01-08 07:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by Pinky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course stalkers are real. It may be hard for you to imagine that anyone would have the time of the day to just follow someone and constantly think of someone most likely they never even talked to before, but stalkers are sick in the head. They are not getting the treatment they need so they go into their own world...like they just snap in and out....its crazy and very scary and dangerous.
2007-01-08 07:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by happiness 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes they're real unfortunately. If it's hard for you to fathom it probably means you're a normal stable person. (yay!)
2007-01-08 07:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalkers are very real and it is scary to imagine someone can become so obsessed. By the way....was that a new shirt you were wearing last night?
2007-01-08 07:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Gooza_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are real. Some stalkers are known to the stalkee but often are total strangers especially in the case of celebrity stalkers. My ex. stalked me until I moved too far away for him to afford to stalk me. He would drive up and down in front of my house 15-20 times a day, would phone our oldest child to keep tabs on my whereabouts, even turned up in my back yard, and one time arrived at my house toting a gun. That time I called the RCMP who helped relocate me to a city from my nice country home.
Yeah, they are real.
2007-01-08 07:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by HelpingHand 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes because I am being stalked by 2 men that have "hurt" me in certain ways in the past...that's all I'm saying! But, I haven't seen them for a while but I know they're there because my friend has noticed weird things addressed to me at school.
2007-01-08 07:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 80's song "One way or another" by Blondie is about a female stalker. They are frighteningly real if you are being stalked.
2007-01-08 07:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by ©2009 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. i have had one in real life. i had to eventually change my number. by then i already had moved and he didnt know my new address. he would still go to my moms and leave letters and he would send flowers and letters to my job. he would randomly just show up there and the police wouldnt do anything about it cause he wasnt threatning me. i had to quit my job because of it. so yes - they are real.
2007-01-08 07:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by Your Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are real. They seem to have way too much time on their hands and no life of their own.
2007-01-08 07:51:32 · answer #11 · answered by ... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋